Is it normal that i feel jaded in my current relationship?

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So, my boyfriend and I ,have been going steady for about 7 months now. We even lived together at the college residence and loved being together, watching movies together etc. We even realized the importance of giving each other space and allowing each other to have a 'girls day' or a 'guys day' or just simply time alone. My boyfriend and I are Indian and though my parents are a little more open to me having a relationship, his parents aren't as much. His mom came by a week and a half ago and ever since then he hasn't exactly been making an effort to meet or even normally just text or else his mother would question him. It's made me feel like I'm the one making the effort to keep things moving. I am an all or nothing individual in a relationship and I feel so tired being the one who constantly initiates things with him. Ever since then, I have sunk into a deep hole when it comes to him. It is hard looking at my 'Whatsapp' messenger seeing what time he comes online and if he would be the one to initiate conversation with me. Clearly, I need to get myself as occupied as he is but is it normal to feel this way in circumstances like this?.

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  • IDiGAFi
    10 years ago

    IDK WTF jaded means. So fuck it.

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  • lawhitney84
    10 years ago

    Normal? That I can't say, but I will tell you this... the mother/son relationship can be a real bitch for the girlfriend. If she doesn't approve, it usually ends in the choice between mother or girlfriend. It's crappy. I understand why you feel the way you do... If she's already left and he's still acting that way, something is up... if she's still visiting, wait to see what happens when she leaves, and don't keep your resentment bottled up. Talk to him.

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