Is it normal that i feel insecure about giving head?

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In general, I don't mind sucking a dick. My ex-boyfriend raved about my "abilities" and I actually enjoyed going down on him. But my current boyfriend, who I'm way more serious with, keeps comparing me to his exes and telling me that one in particular did something that blew his mind. He doesn't know how to describe it though. All of a sudden I feel like I can't make my man happy. Is this situation normal?

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Based on 19 votes (11 yes)
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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    Your current boyfriend is a giant douche.

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    • Amor.fati
      13 years ago

      I love the boy to death but he can be a little crude sometimes..

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  • aduusw
    12 years ago

    I'm a guy and I think he is an aashole

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  • darren3
    13 years ago

    He's a douche. He wants you insecure and it worked.

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  • paintballgunz99
    13 years ago

    ^ Like. I was gonna comment the same thing

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  • BellaHeaven
    11 years ago

    Your new man is a douche. Oh course you feel this way after he says thins like that and as a result you're goin to be nervous and held back by thoughts of this making your abilities not at their peak. Please run. Anyone who compares you to an ex is not the person you want to be with. You are you and you are not here o be turned into someone else to satisfy his needs. If his ExS were so great he can go have them! Find someone you have better chemistry with!! Nothing makes sex better than being comfortable and confident!

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  • CDmale4fem
    13 years ago

    ^5 Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress --- I am a guy and I think you hit the nail on the (dick)head.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    13 years ago

    He's not worth it. He's telling everyone personal details about his sex life and giving out names. That means he's giving his buddies the dirt on you too.

    You don't matter to him. What matters to him is his ego and his orgasms.

    Never kneel before a male and take him in your mouth unless he respects you.

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  • keyzali
    13 years ago

    Welcome to my world my boyfriend says the same thing only with sex though he says I'm the best at giving head but his ex is better at sex -_- they're complete assholes!

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    • Amor.fati
      13 years ago

      I hate that guys assume we want to hear about their pasts. The sex is good for both of us but he likes to describe what other girls would do that he wants me to try.. There is such a thing as too much information!!

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    • darren3
      13 years ago

      And yet you all stay with these men. That's why they do it. Because it works.

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  • aduusw
    13 years ago

    He is an asshole... If he loves you he won't be comparing u whit another girl... He is really inmature

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    ^^ ohhh that's a good one! You get a gold star!

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  • chaosdragoon1
    13 years ago

    He might be lying to get to you to keep giving him head so you are competing and keep giving him more to outdo some unbeatable opponent.

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    • Amor.fati
      13 years ago

      Aw that's clever! Crazy boys :(

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