Is it normal that i feel inferior to my ex?

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I dumped him 'cause he was jealous, controlling and always put me down. Anyway, I should be glad that I got rid of him, but i feel envious of his situation. He supposedly loves me and wants me back, but it looks as though he's moving on already. He has a bunch of friends, and he's also made friends with empty headed, but hot girls.

Me, I have a few friends, but it's awkward since I've met them recently and I'm quite shy. I've distanced too much from the friends I had before I was with him... he didn't like them so I gradually isolated myself from them and now it's like we're from different planets with them.

But he goes partying every weekend, with these bimbos, and I just feel so ugly and like a loser 'cause I don't have as much fun as he does. I mean, he's the jerk, he should be suffering not me. And even though he's a jerk I'm still in lvoe, and I envy him and I feel so inferior to him... I feel like a loser. Is that normal?

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  • MercedesBenz
    13 years ago

    Stop caring what he is doing. Quit talking to him, checking his facebook, and nosing in his life.

    You are never going to feel freed from this situation until you stop comparing yourself to him and just live your life for you.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    lady, Never compare yourself to others, if he was controlling and pessimistic I think he's the loser not you.

    Somehow in this life there are always people who take advantage of the others and get away with it just like your ex bf here...maybe he's having fun now and everything but you never know what might happen tomorrow,and don't worry about it Karma never forget, soon it will come back to him hard :)

    as for your "shy" attitude its sexy with guys but when your trying to make friends you should REALLY but it aside and be more open.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    You feel like a loser because you are, in fact, a loser. Why else would you still be looking at him with envy and following whatever course his life is taking? If he was that jealous and controlling of you then you should have celebrated the day the relationship was over instead you find yourself jealous since he is the one to have benefitted from the breakup instead of you. Its funny how you start your post as well. "I dumped him"

    He probably dumped you because you were a spiteful, controlling bitch.

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  • CHEESEMAN123
    13 years ago

    :o

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