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Why when a guy says he's interested in me and he sends ncie msgs or tells me nice and cute things I feel like he's making fun of me? Why do I always feel that?
Sounds like you need to work on improving your self esteem. While some people can be cruel, it certainly can't be the case that every guy who is interested in you is making fun of you. I think if you increase your own view of your self-worth you will feel less surprised when others see it.
Well, I think you should work on your self-esteem and view yourself as someone who can catch guyz attention. But its also good to doubt a little bit people and doing that doesn't mean that your not worth loving , it simply means that certain individual simply don't have good intentions, and thats a reality that you should always keep in mind so that you don't give your trust to too many people and end up getting burn!
Aw you are right, see, the posibilities, the real things and a good advice, this is a perfect example of seeing the things objectively, when these thoughts come to my mind, I forget to think rational and start to see it all black or white.
Eerything seems so heavy, so big, so determinant and decisive. I stop thinking who I am, what I have, what my qualities are, and I look so dangerous, so mean, and at the same time so guilty.
Aw many things.
I really appreciate your comment, it made me think many things. Thank you! Hugs*
Sweetheart, you have low self esteem. You must realize that as humans Mother Nature is a fabulous creature she has ensured that all people have a chance to procreate, there really is someone for everybody. I like redheaded nerdy rednecks. Is that normal, no. But if you are a redhead, nerdy guy, or redneck guy guess what there is someone that is attracted to you. My friends think my taste is gross but they respect it. If someone says they are attracted to you believe it or you will be Alonge for the rest of your life.
either its your self esteem or its people being cruel listen i see all these young people gay,straight girls boys hurting themselves over stupid cruel people if these so called guys are doing that to you they are NOT worth your time belive me ive been through a lot im not gorgeous but i and in time youll see they are insecure so they do that do wat you can improve your self for you looks are not anything im not at all a 10 my husband is though and hevloves me ME noone else looks arent why