Is it normal that i feel guilty and slutty about sex?

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I'm in my twenties and am seeing this guy but it's long-distance so we're not in a relationship. I like him a lot and I know he likes me, and I know I want a sexual relationship with him. However, every time it comes time to do the deed, I feel guilty, or like I'm slutty because we're not committed. Is it normal to feel this way?

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  • MissWhip
    12 years ago

    Sex is a primal instinct so it most cases its not wrong and from what I read you are wanting it for all the right reasons so try to relax and enjoy it. Due to your nurture it seems you get a feeling of guilt or feeling slutty.

    Wouldn't say its normal but I'd say its unrealistic emotions and you will get over it.

    Good luck

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  • Austalien
    12 years ago

    sign yeah if your brought up with strict religion ect, They fucked your mind up for life, Just have fun and deprogram from that guilt shit ect

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  • honeydew
    12 years ago

    Thanks :) I appreciate the advice

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  • snehaks
    12 years ago

    Its very normal to feel slutty about casual sex in an uncommitted relationship!! It really depends on a person.... are you in for such a casual sex? If you think its wrong than it is wrong! Now some people dont mind having casual sex and they might think you are overreacting!!

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