Is it normal that i feel disgusted by sex?

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I just broke up with my first boyfriend, and now the thought of sex with anyone else makes me feel nauseous. Even if I find the person attractive I just feel disgusted by the thought of sex with them. Even kissing other people makes me feel disgusted by them

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Based on 57 votes (30 yes)
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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    This will pass

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  • VenomBurn
    7 years ago

    Well kinda sounds like you aren't over him. If he was the first person you had been intamit with then that might be why. Most girls and some guys never get over their first. They feel like giving them their virginity was the ultimate gift, so having sex with anyone else makes them feel slutty or easy or something. Did you feel any depression after you broke up?

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    • Azaman
      7 years ago

      Lol 'intamit'

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      • VenomBurn
        7 years ago

        My apologies spelling police, Intimate, is this OK now? If we are being sticklers for grammar, spelling and punctuation, it's "LOL" or "lol". NOT Lol.

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        • Azaman
          7 years ago

          Lol

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          • VenomBurn
            7 years ago

            See you are an idiot, why did I even bother replying to your stupidity?

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            • Azaman
              7 years ago

              Lol

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  • VenomBurn
    7 years ago

    It's not really either you are either "Asexual" which is a real thing. Or your first experience having a sexual relationship was not a good one. Give it some time and see if your feeling towards the act changes. If it doesn't, you are definitely Asexual.

    Or just the thought of sex with anyone but him is disgusting to you?

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    • juefwi
      7 years ago

      It's just the thought of people that aren't him that disgusts me. I feel like I'm pretty much over the breakup, but this feeling won't go away.

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    Sounds like you had a very bad experience with your ex.

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  • Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously
    7 years ago

    There's no rush and it's all normal! You'll feel like having sex again when you meet that special guy who catches your eye... (Such poetry) but sorry my dear, he ain't on here...

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  • bassface
    7 years ago

    It sounds perfectly normal. Some people, including myself, can't have sex with just anyone. They need an emotional connection to do so. Sex obviously isn't something you take lightly, which is very good, so take it slow and let your heart choose when it's time to be physical again.

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