Is it normal that i feel different towards sex at different times?

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What i mean is normally thinking about i don't really feel one way or the other, but i somehow find something that makes me horny then i'd do the most disgusting shit like attempting to lick my self(I got it once and I came fast but I felt like throwing up afterwards) or trying anal (it felt pretty nice i guess but i felt sick for a week after he did it) but then afterwards i'd just be and slightly ill and feel disgusted with myself and extremely turned off for at least the rest of the day. I mean, most of the time i feel uncomfortable after, even if i didn't do anything particularly bad. Sometimes i want it but i also don't, you know what i mean?

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  • rayb12
    6 years ago

    Its totally common a lot of it has to do with shame we have towards exploration that's sexual. Try to visualize these things when not horny and accept them see them objectively and how they harm no body and give you pleasure. Enjoy and accept the full experience. You deserve everything without shame.

    It could also be these are not your favorite things but you will be able to easily tell

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      It's not shame though, it's physical disgust. I'm not gay so trying to give myself oral would be uncomfortable and gross in any other state of mind than horny. And anal did make me actually ill for a while after... (I couldn't drink milk without consequence for a week, but other than that i didn't mind it.) My main point was that i do things i wouldn't be ok with at all when i'm not in the mood, and even when it's not bad or gross i still want nothing to do with sex after.

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      • Kevinevan
        6 years ago

        I used to suck my dick when I was younger and while I've never had anal I shoved stuff up my ass and let girls finger my ass.

        It's all good. I constantly disgust myself with the porn I watch. I will watch any damn thing, so do what you enjoy.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          6 years ago

          The rest of the time it makes me want to throw up so i'd have a hard time saying it's enjoyable at all...

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          • Kevinevan
            6 years ago

            Well then stop the behavior. Are you saying you're somehow possessed and incapable of controlling yourself?

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              6 years ago

              No what i'm saying is when i get horny i do that kind of shit without a second thought, and the rest of the time i don't want sex at all or i'm even disgusted by the mere thought....And i always get super depressed after....

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  • JonathanOo
    6 years ago

    Same. I'm disgusted by myself at times. Yet some nights or in my dreams I'd really love something really sexual. It's confusing....

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