Is it normal that i feel desperate for being gay?

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I feel desperate most of the time because of my sexuality.
I even don't know wether I'm gay or bisexual
And I feel completely desperate because if a straight guy meets a cute girl he can approach her and talk to her and maybe she will like him too.
But I see cute guys all the time and I just get more depressed because I know that I can't talk to them because they are 95% straight.
I have never had a boyfriend or girlfriend and that brings me down even more and more.

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  • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!
    8 years ago

    Don't you people have clubs, or a hovel you meet up at to gossip about the Kardashians?.

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    • someone410
      8 years ago

      Are you serious?
      I am an arab and I live in a city full of muslims

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      • RoseIsabella
        8 years ago

        Maybe you should move and leave your religion?

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    You sound WAY, WAY too young to be getting all hung up about this stuff. It will all work itself out in time, so why rush it?
    After all, if you were old enough, there are plenty of gay bars, clubs and activities (for adults) where you could meet guys like you.
    Forget all this crap and concentrate on your school work. As I said, it will all work itself out in time.

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    I don't see how you can ever explore your sexuality in that type of society, so you have some hard choices to make.

    I'm sorry there's no solution I can think of for you in your present situation

    Gay is normal, by the way, in spite of the rubbish most religions spout.

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  • Stand2260by
    8 years ago

    We can be together dude but how old are 30?

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  • heckleBucker
    8 years ago

    Eventually, your repression will result in vile feelings that will motivate you to perpetuate societal repression.

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  • flyingnostalgia
    8 years ago

    To be or not to be

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  • sparticus1122
    8 years ago

    Yea its normal and something I struggle with myself. Just know that 10% of men in the world identify as something other than straight, so there are plenty of gay/bi guys out there for you.

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    • Ellenna
      8 years ago

      Yeah and if they find each other they could be risking the death penalty if caught.

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  • TheCockRoach
    8 years ago

    Homosexuals have thousands of sexual partners in their lifetime and this is documented and of their own admittance.

    It's perfectly normal that this "brings me down" because on the good side perhaps your straight and not a homosexual.

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