Is it normal that i feel depressed about this?

They're being polite when they call you "strange." What they really mean is "sick," or maybe "dangerously possessive" or even "disturbing control freak." What in hell do you think happens during a gynecological visit, anyway? Trust me, it's NOT the kind of thing that conjures images of romance.

My husband now goes to a female doctor, and I couldn't be happier because all I care about is his health, not whether she might feel stirrings of lust when she handles his junk (which I know she doesn't because she handles junk all damned day).

There's something pathological about your beliefs. I hope she runs screaming from you while she still can and before you can tie her up in your basement, you disgusting freak.

You gotta realize that this is for her health. These are professionals trying to make sure she doesn't have diseases and whatnot. Besides, It's not like they're getting her off or anything. Honestly, she probably wouldn't even go if she didnt have to.

Doctors examining your partner aren't looking at her in a sexual way. They aren't drooling over her vagina.
They are doing their job. They see so many everyday. What makes your partner special out of the many women?
At the end of the day, the doctor could find something and save her life.

You're a possesive tool
You don't own her body you asshole

I understand you and arguimg with natural instincts you are even quite right. However you have to ask yourself if your grilfriend is in any way unfaithful when she visits this gyno. I suppose you'd at least say, she doesn't mean to be unfaithful. Furthrmore you should be aware of the fact that such visits are hardly ever comfortable or something women want to do. So in the end you could compare this to a situation, where you (without especially wanting to do so) see some nude art or a nude person on TV. In her case however it's something she even has to do and probably dislikes herself.

Now why won't she go to a female gyno instead?
Well getting used to a gyno is awkward enough I guess, but maybe he's just the best one she heard of or she has any other plausible reason to stay where she hasn't made any bad expiriences (Him being the first to warm up his tools beforehand could be enough - sry I could let the chance for this pun pass by ;).
So I guess you would do best, if you could just let HER make this decision on her own, I'm sure you can think of far more important topics concerning your relationship and how you can make her have a good time.

Whhattt? Like doctors or a gyno? You buggin bro.

U sound very jealous

A little jealousy may be understandable, but your reaction is extreme. As others have pointed out, it's a routine medical visit, not a sexual encounter. If your girlfriend feels comfortable seeing a male gynecologist, you should support her in taking care of herself.

An interesting observation, the response to my question.

The term 'gyno sluts' comes to mind.

Are you asking if you're strange or is it normal? Those are opposites. I reckon this will even out to about 50%.

It's normal. But you should not lose sleep over it

you are not strange
It is medical
Society has become horrible
It is not like you'll become pregnant from that