Is it normal that i feel betrayed my best friend had sex?

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We're both 18 year old guys. I'm gay, haven't had sex yet, he's straight, has a girlfriend of one year who he had sex with about a month ago for the first time. He doesn't really like discussing his sex life so I never ask/never make him uncomfortable about it. We're very very tight.

Last night he told me he's been having very regular sex with his girlfriend and I was really shocked. I felt betrayed, I think, for some reason that is simply beyond me. Felt like maybe because he gave love (in such an 'obvious' way) to someone else, then he doesn't love me. I'm not sexually attracted to him, just getting that off the table. My feelings are fully platonic.

Is it normal that I felt this way?

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  • bleach_baby
    12 years ago

    Maybe you feel betrayed cuz he didn't tell you about such a big development in his life and that makes you feel shut out. Maybe you're slightly jealous that he's sexually active and you're not.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    the problem is... how did he betray you? he didn't.

    maybe you need to rethink your feelings. and to understand that he isn't yours the way your heart may be thinking of him

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    You need to start sucking his cock and sucking it right now. Make sexual innuendos around him, like eating a banana or a popsicle and see how he reacts.

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  • Ramit10
    12 years ago

    So what life aint all about sex

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