Is it normal that i feel bad about my ex doing this?

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So the guy and i are good friends now.. I'm really trying because he cheated on me and got a daughter as a result.. He was showing pics of his daughter(try to imagine me dying and exhausted from the fake smiling)..all I see is the background of the appartment him and i bought together, it hurts to see all that.. His house with current and former side bitch looks exactly how I left it.. Even the carpet, tables, paintings and art all at the same position..Which brings alot of sad memories.. It was our first appartment together, our first evrything.. Is it normal to be hurt by this cz I feel he should have atleast changed things... Most importantly would any of you guys do this?

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    Why not just cut off contact and save yourself the misery?

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  • Azaman
    7 years ago

    That sounds like a messy situation. I certainly say you're entitled to those feelings. But you can't blame a parent of being happy about thier own child... I have some friends in similar but obviously not the same situation... It's bound to be complicated, I'm sure..

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  • Whatintarnation
    7 years ago

    It's really hard to get over an ex and move on when you still see and talk to them. Do yourself a favor and cut all contact

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    7 years ago

    The emotions you are feeling are normal, but you're not doing yourself any favors staying in contact with him. Perhaps you should cut off all contact or distance yourself a bit from this person? Maybe try to find someone else?

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  • Paigiepoo
    7 years ago

    i would not, just know…. relationships with kids are very trying. you are clear,

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  • Azaman
    7 years ago

    I've been cheated on though, so I can relate that pain, and certainly say I'd never cheat... But I can relate to trying to make things work with the relationship after being cheated on, unfortunately it didn't work out for me but maybe you'll make it work. Best wishes to you.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    7 years ago

    Tell him to buy your half of the flat then stop contacting him.

    WHAT A MUTHAFUCKING DOUCHEBAG.

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  • Curiousme1981
    7 years ago

    Some men are fucking horrible totally understand why you would feel that way.
    Try to cut him off from your life it's very very hard but you'll probably feel better and don't stalk him on FB you'll feel worse.

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    I wouldn't be bothering with any contact with him if it still hurts so much: what's the point?

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