Is it normal that i feel ashamed after sex?

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Is it normal that I feel ugly/used/embarrassed after I have sex? I can't stop thinking about it afterwards and feel gross. I know sex should be enjoyable but I feel disgusting after. I don't even want to look at my body. IIN?

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Based on 25 votes (8 yes)
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  • coolio75650932
    11 years ago

    if your ugly then why do handsom men stick there key in your keyhole?

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    13 years ago

    You need to think about why you're having sex in the first place.

    Is it for the orgasm? Is it because you love your partner? Is it because your partner asked you for it?

    1) You might not be ready to have a sexual relationship.
    And there's nothing wrong with that - even if everyone else you know is having sex every waking moment, it doesn't mean YOU are ready for it.

    2) You might not be with the right partner.
    Believe me, who you're in bed with matters. If he or she is the right one for you, you'll know it.

    3) You might not be having sex for the right reasons.
    Orgasm isn't the right reason. Being closer to someone you love is. Sure others will tell you it's old fashioned but... it's still the truth.

    I'd recommend taking a break from sex. Learn about yourself better, about what you want from a relationship. Learn about your body and what you want.

    Give your love when you truly want to. When you let others pressure you, then it's not your own choice. When you go to bed with someone, it should be your true choice, where you can say "I want *that one*" without a doubt or hesitation.

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