Is it normal that i feel as though i have given up?

Is it normal to feel as if I have given up with trying to get girls? Throughout high school, I've only had one girlfriend, which was only for a month. Every other girl that I have tried to get to be my girlfriend has told me I'm either too nice or that they're not attracted to me, although I'm told I'm good looking and funny.

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  • Anime7

    I'm honestly right there with you, except I've never even had a girlfriend, much less a month.

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    • That in a way makes us 2
      At the moment I have an online "girlfriend" but I'm pretty sure it won't work out.
      But I do still have hope and if I'm lucky as hell she will move to where I live within the next few months.
      (She lives around 950 kilometers away)

      Off topic,
      What animes do you enjoy the most?

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      • Anime7

        I've never had an online girlfriend, but I've had a few friends online that were female. I'm kinda done with the whole exchanging e-mails because I only get to know the girl for a couple of weeks and then the relationship just ends.

        Oh, Uhm.. FLCL is a pretty awesome anime. I'd have to go with that. Although for second place it's a tie between Code Geass and Deathnote. Lately, though I've been watching Another and Dawn Maiden of Amnesia.

        What about you. What animes do you like?

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        • I had totally forgot to reply to the, good thing I looked at this post again :)

          I like many animes, a few examples would be.

          - Full metal alchemist
          - Higurashi no naku koro ni
          - Valkyria chronicles
          - Highschool of the dead
          - The World God Only Knows
          - School Rumble

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          • Anime7

            I've never seen Higurashi or the Valkyria chronicles. Also, I'm not a big fan of School Rumble, it's funny but not my stuff. High school of the Dead however is, and I'm not just saying that cause of the echhi. It is definitely a great series that is sort of cheapened by the hentai. The other series you've mentioned are pretty awesome as well.

            I'm curious, how are things going with your online gf? And your love life in general?

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            • I was about to update you but I didn't think you were interested :)

              It's going...
              umm....

              I guess I have to tell you a few more details in order for it to make sense.

              In a way she and I have a kid, but neither of us are his real parents.
              She has taken care of him for 3 years
              (he's 5 now and she's 17)

              He thinks she is his mother and we kinda made him think I was his father since he always wondered why he never met his dad
              (the reason would be because I went to Sweden to take care of my mother, which is dead now by the way.. :( )

              She has papers for him and everything so there is no problem bringing him to Sweden
              (reason she wants to move is because there are some people treating her bad where she lives now)

              We fixed the papers a few weeks ago so she and the kid can stay here as long as she wants but because of a few problems with trust, ex boyfriends and so on she hasn't gone here yet.

              (We're still discussing it)

              Just sop you know, money won't be an issue because her grandma and her father will provide us with enough money
              (I have enough money to support myself but not a kid and her)

              It would be the best for both me and her if she comes here as soon as possible.

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    It's normal to feel that way, but don't give up. Someday, you'll find that one girl that finds you attractive, funny, and appreciates your kindness.

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  • All the time. Its disappointing to know that other people are not as intelligent as you. One day things will fall into place and you will click with someone worth your effort.

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