Is it normal that i feel as if i'm the only one who cares?

When it comes to adoption, I feel as if I'm the only person who actually gives a care about kids in foster care and orphanages since I actually plan on adopting (If my finances would allow it, I'd like to adopt 3 older kids from Foster Care). It's like when people have kids, it sends a cold message that says," We don't care about kids in need of adoption. Fuck those children, they're not of our DNA". It's like no matter how much I bitch about it on here, I can't change people's views, deter them from breeding, and it's like I'm talking to many brick walls. I'm not even a hateful person. I only come off that way because I am so sick and tired of people not caring, getting themselves sterilized, and adopting kids in need of homes and parents. But I know that due to human rights, enforced sterilization will never happen, people will continue to fuck, and more kids will be born causing more kids in need of adoption to age out never knowing what it's like to have a loving mom, dad, or both. It's heartbreaking and it's not fair. It's like those children are being constantly punished 24/7 for not be genetically similar to Breeders.

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  • charli.m

    You're not the only one who cares. I can see that you do care a lot, but I think you're confused as your stance seems to change so frequently.

    Also, why blame the people who want biological kids? Why not blame the people who have abandoned the kids to the orphanages or foster care in the first place? That's the root of the problem, not other people who love and care for their children.

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  • kelili

    I want to have my own child, my blood, my flesh, my dna.

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  • Am I the only one who "gives a care" about this mexican person's nonsensical sterilization rant?

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  • Veritassa

    Taking on a child for adoption is a huge undertaking that not everyone is prepared for. As for people continuing to have sex, there needs to be more safe sex education and more acceptance and accessibility of planned parenthood measures such as birth control and abortion. If you want to make a difference, perhaps you could consider becoming involved in a planned parenthood education plan--this would help people better prevent unwanted births and lessen the amount of children in need of adoption.

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  • noid

    Children in foster care are often very damaged and don't improve no matter how much you love them. For example, Reactive Attachment Disorder.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    You are the olny one that cares. Goodbye.

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