Is it normal that i feed my ego with women?

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When it comes to relationships with women, I tend to use them to feed my ego. Most of my girl friends end up with feelings and I more or less exploit it. I don't outwardedly ruin the friendship, they just tend to drift away because I don't give them what they want. There's something about being in control that is intoxicating. On the flipside, I don't suffer from a lack of confidence or self-esteem at all. I don't see myself as a "love" person though; this behavior is my own way of sating desire for love, so to say.

Am I screwed up?

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Based on 44 votes (14 yes)
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  • dom180
    10 years ago

    Ehhhh. Control is no replacement for love, and I find it hard to believe you don't suffer from a lack of self-esteem if you put such a great emphasis on controlling other people. Wanting to control other people is not a normal, healthy urge.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago | pl

    Holy shit did my ex boyfriend just make a freaking IIN post?

    Whoever you are, I went through I relationship almost exactly like you described, and you sir are an asshole regarding your relationships.

    Some of us don't drift away. Some of us actually put effort into a one-sided relationship to make guys like you actually feel a "spark", but then feel like shit when we actually wake up and realize we have been exploited...and then afterwards realize we are a million times fucking better than guys like you.

    ..l. .l..

    ^^ those are my hands flipping you off btw, on behalf of all the women you use.

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      Unfortunately it takes going through those types of relationships so that you learn how to recognize and then avoid them in the future.

      I read your profile, I enjoy James Rollins also, just for casual reading, good call. Your attitude on make up is refreshing also, less is most definitely more.

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        Sweet! Another James Rollins fan.

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        • [Old Memory]
          10 years ago

          Amazonia, Deep Fathom, Ice Hunt, Excavation, Subterranean,... just to name a few. His imagination is unique keeps me reading.

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  • imadragon
    10 years ago

    Well, yes. Only caring about yourself is kinda screwed up.

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  • Tommythecat.
    10 years ago

    What cookie said

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  • Cookie.Monster
    10 years ago

    It wrong, wrong wrong! You supposed to feed your weenie with women, tummy with cooookies and ego by flashing really big weenie and everybody go "Oh! Oh! Oh! Very big weenie"

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      Where have you been all my life?!

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      • Cookie.Monster
        10 years ago

        Suuuunny day, sweeping clouds away, on my way to where air is sweeeet..,, Me can tell you how to get how to get to Sesaaame Street...

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  • Riddler
    10 years ago

    This sounds like narcissistic behavior. Perhaps you are suffering from this disorder.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    ...I'm pretty much the same way, kind of, except I extend it to everyone, not just women.

    I like being admired.

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