Is it normal that i fear showing my good side to women?

growing up in America Uncle Sam has has thought me that women are these so called angelic creatures that absolutely dont hold a threat to us men in any way, shape, or from... hypocrisy as usual!

but where I'm originally from think where a "little" more different. back there I was always thought that men who...

- show their weak side to women

- refuse to whip their cocks out at women

- grab their tits and ass without their consent

- refuse to talk dirty to a women

- cant fight other men who post a threat to their women

- and beyond!

are weak cowards and who shall be punished by not getting their "reward" aka women. yes a extremely barbaric society! I remember when I was a toddle I use to enjoy going to church and enjoying the good view and all and I remember one of my four sisters used to shout "wow we always wanted a male brother, but now he's gonna be a priest when he grows up!" after that a few years later when in my early teen years everybody in my family was rushing me to get a girlfriend and every time I would refuse they would up the pressure up a notch like if I was about to become gay or something.

but anyways, does all this justify my reasons for having such a distorted views on women?

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  • derpyderp

    Showing your good (I assume you also mean vulnerable?) side to a woman - or anyone for that matter - is scary, no doubt about it, especially if you have been raised to be somewhat of a manly, macho man.
    But with the right woman it's worth it. It'll take time to really open up about everything but the right woman will be there every step of the way, reassuring you that being vulnerable doesn't mean you are weak. It's one of those gay cliche "it takes a bigger man to show his true feelings" things.
    If you want to eventually love & be loved you have to be willing to put yourself on the line, put that vulnerable part of yourself on the line & trust that person with it. & they need to do the same with you. Good luck

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  • 53739

    I agree women do not like weak men.

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  • ZetaMale

    Vulnerability is exactly what I'm talking about. but oh well unfortunately life is a bitch after all so I'm pretty sure the "right one" isnt just gonna jump at me, till then I guess pretty obvious that I'm gonna have to show my vulnerable side to all women I encounter until I find the right one. which you know what that is gonna lead to, me being just another vulnerable sucker that is gonna get mistaken for being a creep, a weirdo, etc while having others see it as a window of opportunity to take my kindness as a weakness

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  • RoseIsabella

    Where are you from?

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    • ZetaMale

      I was raised in America but I'm originally from Dominican Republic

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      • RoseIsabella

        If some guy randomly whipped his junk out at me I would think he was a vile, disgusting person.

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        • ZetaMale

          I'm with you on that one. I mean this they dont actually go out an do this on a daily basis of course, but this usually their typical attitude

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          • RoseIsabella

            Yeah, I don't like people who push themselves on others. Honestly, I find men who ask my permission for things or to do things to be quite attractive.

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            • snarkygirl

              Hey look what I came across :)
              http://youtu.be/7QBgCfKfXqQ

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