Is it normal that i fantasize about my teacher even though i have a bf

Im 17 and in high school. My male English teacher is super attractive and seems to be attracted to me as well. He's 33, married and has kids.

He always asks me to have meetings with him before and after school about my essays. He likes me to express my intellect and opinions on certain books we've read in class. He's given me several hugs and has touched my knee a few times before while talking. He also pays special attention to me in class as well.

I have an amazing boyfriend but I fantasize about this teacher several times a day and i want to act on my feelings. Is this normal?

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Based on 440 votes (318 yes)
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Comments ( 19 )
  • drego551

    I think you should ask him to teach you more after school, that way you can spend more time w/ him and show him that you like him, then when the times right....get on your knees and blow him...

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  • Lynxikat

    Okay, I'm gonna be "that" person. If this turns out to be a troll post while I'm being "that" person, I'm gonna look like a total idiot, but whatever...

    First. If he's your teacher, and he's married, and he has kids, and he's 33, he should NOT be touching your knee. He shouldn't be TOUCHING you period.

    Second. If he's touching your knee a lot, and you're sure he's attracted to you, then yeah, he wants something. And that makes him a terrible, awful human being because not only is he your TEACHER, but he's also MARRIED. People who cheat are scum, period. If you're really that unsatisfied with your marriage that you're looking at other people, and touching them where you're not suppose to, then you're a coward. Because if things were really going that bad, you would have divorced them.

    Third. It's one thing to be attracted to your teacher when you have a boyfriend. It's quite ANOTHER to WANT to ACT on them. Solely by the fact that you WANT to act on them, that makes you just as bad as your teacher is; because you want to act on your feelings even though you already have a boyfriend, even though you know that your teacher's MARRIED.

    Which leads me to number four: MARRIED MEN ARE OFF LIMITS. I don't care HOW bad you want him, I don't care HOW bad he wants you, YOU DO NOT FUCK AROUND WITH MARRIED MEN. People who screw around with anyone who's married, or anyone who's in a serious relationship with someone else is JUST AS BAD AS THE CHEATER. You are SELFISH if you seriously want to act on your feelings and start a relationship with a MARRIED MAN.

    Fifth. Even if you do have a relationship with him, what makes you think he actually likes you? What makes you think that you're not just a number on his list of girls he "conquered"? As a married man who has no problem cheating on his wife, what makes you think that you have any reason to trust him if he's willing to break the trust of his wife and children.

    Tl;dr DON'T GET INVOLVED WITH HIM.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Careful that tohse fantasies don't turn into realities.

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    • I think she wants the thoughts to turn into realities though....

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      • Terence_the_viking

        Run away.

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  • SDDA

    Like Drego said, I would get after school help with him, flirt with him, get even closer. But let him start it. But I don't know, if you're going to act on it, you should do it with caution. Don't want to go the rest of the year giving each other awkward glances if he rejects your advances.

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  • Jeaneathean

    Be careful about being by yourself with this man.

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  • IBMelissaG

    Some teachers are hot. Most of them aren't worth spending your time thinking about. I have sucked off one of my teachers, and SO attracted to another, but I'm not sure if I'd hook up with him. Maybe after I graduate.

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  • hybee

    It's normal, but utterly out of order for him to even touch you. If you were his wife how would you feel about this situation?

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  • highrider

    go for it

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  • ryan2k12920

    if i was a teacher and i knew a girl liked me i would make her stay behind after class and make her sit on the table and spred her legs and i would lick her pussy until she came in my mouth, then fuck her hard over the desk

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  • forevergirl

    Don't worry sometimes this happens I understand that this man is special in your life but there are billions of guys out there. Here is something to think about, what if you two have sex fall in love and have a great time together but then people find out the police get involved ur parents get in involved your almost 18 and he is an adult if u get caught when ur 18 not only does he get fired and hauled off to jail but this stays on ur permanent record ur embarrassed and behind bars. I suggest switching classes or telling a friend before u do anything. I know that the feelings ur having are strong but he has a family and kids imagine if ur dad did that to your family it would ruin ur mother and u would never Be the same...

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    it sounds like you like the attention - what 17 year old wouldn't? BUT you also have to understand that he likely doesn't intend what you're thinking.

    i'd say... best put it aside.
    Lest you find out how much he prefers his adult woman over a student.

    i mean sure fantasy is normal but... if you try to make it reality you may find yourself very hurt. and then you'll likely lose the BF too cos males don't like being cheated on.

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  • Aewe101

    I felt the same way about my history teacher but he never flirted with me or anything, I honestly think you should not do anything with him he can lose his job and you both can get into some serious trouble

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  • Zeldamaniac

    Hoo fucking made this story

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  • Zeldamaniac

    That's kinda gross to be 17 and like a 33 year old

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  • quentari

    you're underage... AND he's your teacher. this THING... is illegal in two different ways.

    IF you're still interested once you have finished school AND broken up with your boyfriend... then yes. Go ahead. Just remember that he's married and cheaters always repeat. always.

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  • kelili

    You should not forget that this man is married and has children. That's all I have to say.

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