Is it normal that i fantasize about...

I'm a girl and not about to become a guy, but I find myself fantasizing about being a guy and having sex with another guy. I have gone out with a friend of mine and cross dressed that whole night, we even pretended to be a gay couple. It was so much fun! But is it normal to want to be a guy half the time??

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Based on 370 votes (209 yes)
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  • D-angerous

    I have fantasized about being a woman and having sex with men and i'm a male and i'm not gay nor have i ever liked men outside of those fantasies.

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  • ParanoidPhantom

    I often fantasise about being a guy, and I have cross-dressed on multiple occasions as well. I would love to go out with my bf while cross-dressing, and pretend to be a gay couple, but I'm afraid he'd think it was weird....
    The only difference is that when I imagine this it doesn't involve having sex.

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    • Doggone66

      You women have it so much easier if it turns you on to crossdress because women can get away completely with wearing all male clothes outside on the street. If I wanted a thrill dressing like a woman in a dress and heels etc I wouldn't be able to get away with it at all! (damn it because it's a HOT fantasy of mine!)
      You ladies are so lucky!

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  • Fabulous

    Walk into the club like ha I got a big cock

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  • popperpop

    I have a fantasy about being myself (a girl) and suddenly being so dominant that I got a guy wrapped around my finger. So I hear ya :)
    However I enjoy being a girl so that's probably why I never thought about it as a guy, But don't sweat it

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  • hybee

    Definitely normal. I had a girlfriend who was really petite and feminine, and loved being fucked in every orifice, but she fantasised about being a guy! Likewise I'm a very masculine guy, who has never had even the slightest gay experience, but I fantasise about being a woman sometimes.

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  • MalTownsend

    One of my best nights out in Melbourne, I picked up this hot chick at the casino.
    We dance, drank and had a great time. I don't really pick up on some of her questions about gays and bi. And she knew I was pretty liberal
    When we got home, and we started making out and I ran my hand down over her crotch I was stunned to behold a bulge. Lol.
    It turned me on even more, she had beautiful tits and was stunning and then to see a hard cock between now HIS legs was fucking great sight. Wow, sucking hot tits and then stiff cock on a sexy looking shim. Lol
    We had great sex and we went out a few more times and I always remember that fondly

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  • Dave365

    Oh and if u hav a boy freind share ur fantasy with him it might turn him on, not that I'm saying he's bi or gay, but lots of men are turned on by the fantasy of their gf taking the active role in the bedroom and they enjoy this together think they call it pegging but remember fantasy is just that and the reality can b not what u thought but always worked out for me but I'm typical Gemini and hav to make my fantasies reality or they drive me mad so far I've achieved or done 85% of them enjoyed them all and currently working on the rest but keep getting new ones lol hav fun, stay safe and b who u want to b x

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    • CDmale4fem

      My exwife is a Gemini, she said she would always need more than one guy in her life to be happy, is that the same for you ? Do you always need more than "other" in your life ? Im just curious.

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  • Dave365

    What's normal? Lol if ur fantasy is about having gay sex guy on guy what's wring with that, I used to fantasise about bn a girl but only to have lesbian sex just turned me on doesnt now as we get older out fantasys change as we grow as a person, I just think u sometimes want to feel more dominant in the bedroom and bn dressed as or bn the guy gives u that feeling but as your experience and confidence grows you will likely find that how u get the dominant feeling u want also changes. Experiment and if u want to try something do if u enjoy it great if it doesn't work out then u won't do it again. But that is what I beleive and what I do, I'm lucky that everything I've tried and done I've enjoyed though sum I got bored of quickly or realised how silly I looked in the case of wearing women's underwear lol guys just don't look sexy in it at all but I enjoyed for a time lol but always think women in guys clothes is really sexy, Annie Lennox in eurythmics in 80's voted sexiest woman at time with a guys haircut wearing a guys suit and boy she was. So enjoy Wat u do enjoy ur life try things if u want and watch m on m gay porn if ur fantasising about bn a guy fuking another guy I'm sure you'll enjoy it and may expand ur horizons in new directions lol

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  • purpleflower

    I feel exactly the same way! I think a guy having sex with another guy is so hot! And (trust me, I like being a girl) but I swear half the time I want to cross dress!

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    • XxBOTDFgirlxX

      Right!? :D and I make a pretty damn sexy guy if I do say so myself ^u^

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  • keef

    I wouldn't call this a fantasy, but I've wondered what it would be like to be a guy, and to have sex with a girl. Just one of the random things I've wondered about, but not enough interest to actually find out :b

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  • nelly96

    That's normal. Personally, I have a thing with transvestites. I find them and all their makeup/flashy costumes so interesting. Sometimes I really wish I was born a man just so I could dress up as a woman...

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  • Millie_the_evil_saint

    It's about how far you're willing to go, really... Some would say this is "perverted". But you have to decide on your own morality codex for yourself. It's not something somebody can tell you over the internet. It's a journey you can only take alone. You need to ask yourself the following question: "Am I okay with this?" If you feel fine about these fantasies, then they're okay for you. But if you feel yourself weird, if this kind of stuff doesn't suit you, if you don't like to see yourself in that way -- then stop thinking about it. Just stop! Tell yourself: no, this is my limit. Everyone has limits: it's what keeps us sane. But everyone's limits are different. There's no standard formula. Good luck!

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  • Energy

    100% normal. Glad you're honest with yourself.

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  • ScorpioDB

    You can wear a strap on and do some anal sex with your bf if he is okay with that ;) Or watch yaoi hentai

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  • screwthestandard

    I have the same fantasy except when I do I fantasize about having sex with girls, not guys. :p You're fine lol

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  • michaels4p5

    No.

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  • Peptox

    That's not normal or common but what you feel or think isn't necessarily a bad thing.

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  • avery12138

    Be glad u got boobs. The more to suck on for the men

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  • meandmrsright

    Not normal. That is weird. Your a female for a reason. Get back in the kitchen!

    Seriously the last line was a joke. No offense ladies.

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  • disthing

    Penis envy? :P

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    • XxBOTDFgirlxX

      Haha a little bit, yeah!!

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