Is it normal that i fantasise about boys other than my boyfriend?

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I have crush on a guy (i'am gay). It has been more than one year. I think I love him. But sometimes I look at pictures of guys other than my bf, fantasise about them and even jerk off ( I do the same with my crush too ). Sometimes I think my love for my crush is not true love, because I fantasise about other guys too. Sometimes I think it is only sexual desire for my crush, it is not love. But honestly I do not want it to be in that way. I'm confused. Have you ever fantasised about guys, other than your bf?

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  • GeordieGent
    9 years ago

    Christ, yes! Any red blooded human fancies a whole variety of people and it is completely normal and part of all of our genetic programming. It doesn't mean you aren't faithful to your boyfriend, it just means your a fully functioning sexual human being. Remember humans are animals and weren't designed to be monogamous, this is your animal instinct speaking, coming into conflict with the moral rules that society expects of you. You certainly don't need to feel guilty in any way, especially as your attraction isn't going any further.

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  • SexyUnicorns
    9 years ago

    I have not yet fantasied sex about another person other than my spouse, but I'm sure it's totally normal! As long as you don't plan on cheating on him.

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  • seakelp
    9 years ago

    Nope, but it is normal to fantasize about them.

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