Is it normal that i "fall in love" so easily?

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Hi :).

So here is my problem: i keep "falling in love with people" and want to be in a relationship with them all. I love the deep intellectual and emotional intimacy that results in being a couple and every time I meet a new person that I like, I have the feeling that we have so much to share. Being now in a relationship, I sometimes get the feeling that i'm missing on many things, but at the same time i love my boyfriend very much. It's just that so many people seem interesting, worth spending loads of time with them and getting to know them deeply.
Except a couple of exceptions, friendship has never given me the same level of satisfaction.

I'm 21, and I've had 6 at-least-8-month relationships and they've all been great, I always find amazing people who I get on perfectly with and I'm in good terms with all of my exes. I don't understand how people can struggle so much to find a good partner, couple which fight or argue are a mystery to me. Love (or what seems to be so) is so easy for me.

I'm quite confused about it all, especially because I know none of my partners ever felt the same, they've all been very exclusive.
Does it mean that i'm not really in love? Will I ever find someone who makes me stop wanting to know all the others? Does anybody share the same "problem"?

ps: sorry if there are mistakes, English isn't my first language!

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  • BettyBoobs
    11 years ago

    :) Thanks guys, your comments actually made me feel better about myself.

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  • ashley4948
    11 years ago

    Yes it's normal but you're not really in love, it's puppy love.

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  • Thewomanizer
    11 years ago

    you could be in love then again you may not, you just may be a loving person and want to share it with those who are "lovable" to you. it doesn't mean you have to be "sexally active" with every guy you meet, there are plenty of ways to show love, I believe love or being in love is a profound feeling of care and affection for someone. Usually in life there will be that one significant person who touches your heart in a way that others didn't, and you want to be with them/him. Another thing is that you may just be wanting to have fun at your age and have flings with different fellas rather than settling down which is fair enough cause ur young =). one day u may decide that u want to settle and be in a long- term committed relationship. So just go with it if your having a good time, when the right person comes along you will know x

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