Is it normal that i fall in and out of love like this?

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Well, essentially, I'm very unsure of whether I'm in love or not.

I've been with my boyfriend for three months and he's everything to me. He's always on my mind, and I just work to make him happy. He's all I care about, and I definitely love him, but I've always said there's a difference between loving someone and being "in love" with them.

To me, loving someone is just needing to have them, and loving every part of them. I definitely love my boyfriend, no question, but being in love to me is more wanting to spend forever with them, and always wanting them to be around you.

The problem is, one minutes I'm "in love" with him. I want to spend forever with him, and he's just everything. And the next minute I'm thinking along the lines of being naive to believe I'm in love after three months. So, is it normal to be in love one minute, and then not the next? Is it normal to be so unsure of what you feel?

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  • qbe270
    12 years ago

    It's not normal if your questioning your love that much, you gotta be confident about stuff like this

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    You could be in love after 3 months but the real test is to see if it lasts more than 3-4 years. Hang in there until he bores you to death and then dump him.

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