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I'm a good looking girl most of guys want to get me as a trophy ,i 'm smart and good hearted but i can't show my true self and it' s hard when you are Already judged just for your looks ,as a pretty girl you don't have problems attracting guys but for me it attracts just assholes
Is it normal that this question has caused me to picture you being pursued by a bunch of disembodied, floating rectums? A lot of them are hairy and quite a few have hemorrhoids. The image rather frightens me.
*shudders*
>:-O
Ass=to butt /hole=to anus so the word is asshole forgeting you are all assholes.thanks.
These jerks are obviously are thinking with their dicks rather than their brain. If you really are physically attractive then sadly this is normal.
You are trying to hard to impress them and you aren't being yourself. People can point out fake people and take advantage of their insecurity (of being genuinely them). Stand up for yourself and your beliefs - believe that your true self is awesome and be that... not this. When you aren't yourself you will never attract someone worth while.
Trust me, I did what you did and it just caused a lot of "why do I keep meeting assholes" - confusion. Don't let women tell you that all men are jerks and feminism means getting everything YOU want. It's about being yourself - humble, trusting, nice, interested in this or that, being open minded but liking weird things, laughing at shitty situations.
And here is some advice that you didn't ask for but I am guessing you might need: don't every worry about being alone because when your good with you, you will realize that you are much better company then that asshole who doesn't respect you. When you truly believe this and act like this only a guy that recognizes a respectful woman will approach you and treat you as such. You will never feel "worried" that a guy will leave you because you will know deeply that he isn't the one and it is knowing now than later. Focus on you for a while - what makes you happy?
Because it does not pay to be a nice guy! Nice guys finish last, I really hate to say that, but it is true.
Our society is full of assholes. In my opinion, the majority of people are a bunch of selfish, greedy scumbags who won't give even you the time of day. LOOK AROUND! If you are too friendly to someone, they will look at you funny and walk away from you thinking there is something wrong with you or you want something from them.
It must be something in the way you walk. It must be something in the way you talk. It must move them.