Is it normal that i easily fall in love to someone who is nice to me?

i just don't know why but i will easily fall in love to someone who is nice to me,especially when i feel that that person gives more attention to me than any other people around him. even if that person is a married man, i still feel like i'm falling in love with him. how crazy is that?? please help me, what should i do keep me from easily fall in love..

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Comments ( 11 )
  • Chillpill

    Sounds like low self-esteem to me. If you felt that you deserved to be treated nicely, it probably wouldn't be such a big deal to you. Well, I guess it's still better than falling in love with someone who treats you badly, lol.

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  • squirrelgirl

    I'm the same way. Whether male or female, I develop crushes on other people if they show me kindness on a regular basis. As an extreme example, I once developed a crush on a guy at the swimming pool because he let me cut in front of him at the diving board.

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  • intellectuallychallengedmaybe

    stay away from other people's husbands.

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  • normal i think and btw the tiger cub is so cute

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    • smilingchild

      is it normal? so i dun hve to worry bout it then? thanks :D

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      • sorry just read y r story not normal, leave the married man alone

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        • smilingchild

          well i am trying to leave him..

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  • normalgirl21

    I have the same problem lol. It makes it hard for me to be faithful so i have to put in extra work, but its worth it.

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    • smilingchild

      well sometimes i just don't know which one should i choose.. haha

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  • Sweetgirl75

    You probably really like attention from people and the good feeling of that might make you feel like you're in love with them. But I don't think you really are, it's just in your thoughts.

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    • smilingchild

      yap, true.. i think i just really like attention from people around me..

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