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My boyfriend is a virgin, but i am not. He wants to have sex but i regret having sex in the first place so i feel like i am not fully ready until i'm married. it was a mistake doing it in the first place. but i dont want my boyfriend mad that i wont have sex with him.
That whole "if he loves you he'll wait" thing is Hollywood bull, he can love you and still be disappointed. You both need to be on the same page, communicate, and make sacrifices on both ends. A relationship is about both of you, not just you, and not just him.
He's a virgin and he doesn't know what he's missing. If you both are willing to wait til marriage I would say give each other head. Work up towards the sex gradually. You said you weren't ready, so you aren't ready. He is a virgin he doesn't know what ready feels like. Have a serious talk with him. Make him understand he will get it, just not right now.
Don't feel or let him make you feel forced to do anything. After a while you might have changed your mind, but even if you haven't thats okay. If he loves you he'll wait till you're ready.
If he loves you he will stay without sex. wait till marraige if you want. He should not force you if he deos he deos not love you at all. Wait till the guy you want to marry atleast than you know he commited and thinks of you as a lady not a whore. Do not havr sex if you do not want to. it is your body not his. Respect yourself as others should aswell. :)