Is it normal that i dont want to have a shower with him?

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I've been with my boyfriend for a few months now, he has asked me a few times to have a shower with him. I want to, it's just i don't feel as though i can't. He says he understands or it's okay maybe someother time. I don't really think he does understand. I'm worried he'll laugh or something. I know if he loves me enough he won't. But why am i scared to have a shower with him?! Is it weird?

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  • mr.boy
    13 years ago

    It is very sexy to have a sex shower try blindfolding urself and dive on

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  • Comm0nSense
    13 years ago

    just do it showers with your girl is sexy
    turns me on a wholee lot.. about 9 inches

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  • ven067
    14 years ago

    well depends on what he means by taking a shower, like shower sex? or just a shower?
    maybe he wants to save water or time by having you both shower at the same time?

    whichever it is, your probably self conscious of your body.

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  • Teenageguydan
    14 years ago

    just sounds like normal insecurity. i would have the same problem if it was a girl asking me

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Don't worry about & overanalyze it so much. Its no big deal. If you do shower together fine, if you don't so what?

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  • PiAnt
    14 years ago

    It's perectly normal and just adds another side to your intimacy and your partner sounds very caring and understanding.

    It's a bit like farting. How long into a relationship do you feel before you can freely fart in the presence of your partner? Or pee with the door open? Some people can never feel that much at ease or allow themselves to feel so vulnerable.

    But, it is a very special feeling to be washed (and to wash) by the soft caressing hands of someone who loves you.

    Maybe try it with the light off first. Once you overcome your shyness I'm sure you will relax and enjoy it for the wonderful experience it really is.

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  • gunner_recall
    14 years ago

    I dont think this is normal or abnormal particularly.

    It sounds more like it comes from something else, I'd say having a shower with someone you're dating/sleeping with is a pretty normal thing to do... it can be quite sexy and very sensual to do so.

    Do you have any intimacy issues or body/self image issues... it could be that.

    Maybe its just one of those things you should just say, fuck it... jump in the shower with your partner, soap up, have a fumble about and see how you feel after!

    Im one of those people that thinks 'try anything once' and if you dont like it, you dont have to do it again!

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