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i dont want to date someone im not attracted to..cuz in a relationship, im very visual and sexual. sexual attraction means a lot to me. for example, i really don't like nerdy guys that much.. even if i meet a nerdy guy that's really sweet. i can't turned simply by guys being nice to me ....is that normal?
Oh my some exchange their. Nyway respect cn be built dnt mix it with sexual attraction. Mayb look more into ur expections if they r too high u wnt find a gd guy. Attraction is important bt u cnt class according to nerdy, looks only there is more like confidence, status n others. Gd luck.
I didn't read anywhere in her post or comments that states she likes guys that treat her badly. Why be mean to her? Calling her stupid? Seriously? Anyway, just ignore those comments. Date whoever you want too, after all it's you who has to look at the people you date. If you don't feel an attraction or spark then why would you date them anyway? It's totally normal to only date people you are psychically and emotionally attracted to. Have fun!
Nerdy guys can be fucking sexy. I've got my eye on this geeky dude who is: VERY tall, fit, has got a beautiful face with "strong" angled features, some facial hair, shoulder-length ash brown hair, green eyes, and straight white teeth. He is beautiful.
by attraction i dont just mean looks. it got to be the whole package, looks ,personality, the way he carries himself etc. for example im very attracted to strong guys who dress casual and has a upbeat personality. im not really attracted to "sensitive, pretty, delicate" types..
I clicked it's normal because I think attraction is important as well...but you on the other hand are stupid as fuck.
At least from what I've read just now.
You are that usual type of girl who whines and bitches to her friends how her boyfriend is treating her badly, ha the irony..
I know where you're coming from. I'm the same way. Kinda hard to explain but the personality and okay looks have to be there.
im the OP. the problem is recently lots of people keep telling me attraction can be built but i really , really resist the idea of dating someone im not attracted to... its not like that if the spark leaves a romance then the romance is dead. Spark is important for me and i need it to keep it going. but for me its not the only thing. but its really, really important for me.
Atraction can not be built that's a myth either you have atraction or you don't.
But most people will prefer to get safe then to get raw emotions that make them crave for each other like animals on heat. So yeah don't date people you don't feel atracted to
Physical attraction cannot be built. Same goes for personality. You have to have both. Sure you can get to know someone and you might end up liking them, but that's not a sure thing and you're forcing something that might not happen. If you think they're unattractive it probably won't get any better haha. Don't listen to them, they don't know what they're talking about.