Is it normal that i dont want to be on break with my boyfriend

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I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years now. We talked and texted and hung out with each other all day for the past 6 years. Before i started University i felt we shoud take a break for a few months so i can focus on my work, because he's a massive distraction. (due to my love toward him) I just started collage 3 weeks ago and i already failed. He agreed to the break because he just wants to do whats right for me. I love him so much and i dont think i will be able to do this for much longer. I want to stay strong and keep to my plan but i keep convincing myself that the break is not worth while.

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  • DubstepismyMJ
    11 years ago

    Well it seems your relationship is strong, im sure you guys can handle a measly break. School is important to, and so is the money your putting into it.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    I tried this. Didn't even last me a week. But I graduated none the less, with top grades might I add. My boyfriend is immature and like taking care of a 5 year old. I had to sit him down a few times and explain that I have to study lol But he got it. He was really good about it. You don't have to take a break for University, you yourself are telling you this. Just do what I did. Hang out with him, he can be on his laptop with his headphones in, and you can study. Everyone needs breaks in between studying, so cuddle up then. I'm sure he can understand and be quiet for you and give you the time you need for school.

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  • Dad
    11 years ago

    You can have a break if you 'want' to. This is totally irrespective of school and study.
    But a 'few months'?

    I'm not aware of any husband and wife who have children having 'months' break from each other?

    The point is that if your relationship is strong (strangely, unlikely) Then you will both go through anything TOGETHER always (except possibly a 'break' of a day or so every other year!)

    Obviously if you are young, this 'break' will either confirm your love for each other, or it will wake you up. I'm thinking it will wake you up. I know, I read that much into it, frightening.

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