Is it normal that i dont want friends?

Like idk, after the past couple weeks I've been feeling like I dont want to be friends with anyone Im currently friends with. I sort of just wish i could be the biggest loner ever, I wish it was easy and i could just say i dont want friends or need friends, because I dont really want friends anymore, but Im a senior so its complicated :/

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  • Friends are a waste of time.Fuck them all.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Why can't we be friends?

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  • peterr

    I have a friend who is 86, been my buddy for thirty years. If he died, which may be soon I will be without a great man. Find a friend like this and your life will be better by a long shot my friend.

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  • Gamzeee

    I think what you need is a good friend. You have probably had so many bad friends that being alone seems better but their are good friends out there. *points to self*

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    • notaweirdo

      To be honest, I feel exactly the same, and I have the best friends ever! Have known 2 of them literally my entire life (our dad's were friends when they were little) but I just don't feel like spending time with them anymore, I feel like I am just a waste of their space and that they deserve a better friend.. I don't know, but I don't think that I deserve friends at all, so I just want to be alone, I don't want to hurt others, and it feels a lot better being on your own.

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      • Gamzeee

        I know how you feel. Just have at least someone that you could fall back on if something happened. All relationships are weird.

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  • NotStrangeBird

    The biggest loner ever?

    Better get to building and mailing them bombs.

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  • creampawf

    Maybe you aren't really close with them anymore.

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  • MysticLane

    I've been a loner all throughout high school. I'm so used to it now that I am more comfortable being alone. It's good to have some acquaintances but friends aren't really necessary.

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    • thegypsysailor

      I beg to differ with you on this one. Acquaintances may come and go but a few good friends are important in life. Of course it doesn't mean much unless you understand my idea of what a friend is; a friend is there for you even when it's inconvenient for them!

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      • MysticLane

        except most "friends" aren't actually like that. People are selfish naturally, and hypocritical. True friends don't last. I like having acquaintances because you can enjoy having them around once in a while, and you never get too attached so you'll be fine when they leave.

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        • thegypsysailor

          I've had a very few friends for over 40 years; I hardly remember acquaintances after a couple of years.
          I can pop into a friend's house after 10 years apart, without calling first, and be welcome.
          Hell, I couldn't even ask an acquaintance for bad advice.

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          • MysticLane

            Well I guess you're lucky then. that doesn't happen for many people, and it definitely will not happen for me. And I don't think it is necessary for myself or some others to have friends.

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            • thegypsysailor

              I hope you are wrong.

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  • braintrip

    brofist dude, im not much of a people person either

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  • o_0

    you think being lonely would be okay because you have not yet gone through it, but oh life gets hell...
    may be you have a lot of other priorities these days which make you think it is possible to manage without friends but according to me a person needs his friends one or the other time.. so just don't end up with them ,try to keep in touch,TRY TO VALUE THEM CAUSE IF ONCE YOU LOSE THEM MAYBE YOU'LL NEED THEM THE OTHER TIME.

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  • Short4Words

    Why don't you want your current friends?

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