Is it normal that i dont trust my girlfriend no matter what she says?

No matter what my girlfriend of a year and 4 months says or does...I just ways feel like she is cheating. No, she has never done anything to make me think that she is but I dont know if its her history where she cheated on guys for me or what. She says she only cheated on them because it was me. Its killing me to feel this way about someone I love so much and have spent a lot of time with. IIN?

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  • CDmale4fem

    I think maybe you have issues from yourself cheating in the past, so therefore you want to blame her first, before any evidence of yes or no. Sort of like you want to throw the whole thing in her lap and and then you can walk away saying its all her fault, when reality, its you all along doing the lying, and causing the rift back and forth. Guys are such the Jack Wagon when it comes to Love, commitments, and relationships.

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  • MilleBornes

    Yep. She cheats. Chances are, not just WITH you. She's probably cheating on you as you read this. Hell it's probably with me. As of now, you just don't know. She's a cheater. something you know. You KNOW. So why are you wasting your time. She was obviously good and you were also, but that was sex and you should leave it as such. It's not as hard as you think

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  • xPossumx

    You say she's cheated on other guys, the chances are she's likely to cheat on you too.

    If there is no trust between the two of you then the relationship will not work. You'll be continuously looking over your shoulder and searching for the signs that she may be being unfaithful.

    You could either dump her and move on with your life, or you could take a chance and give her the benefit of the doubt, which may hurt more in the longrun if it turns out she has cheated on you.

    My advice would be to be open and honest with her. Her cheating is obviously taking its toll on you.

    However, if she is continuously accused of cheating, this may push her to go out and cheat.

    Its a tricky situation. If I was in your position, I would dump her and move on with my life, purely because there is no trust in the relationship, but thats just me.

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  • Women are NOT to be trusted.

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  • jamezdavis

    if you dont feel secure in your relationship its because its not going to last the test of time and if your sure shes cheating she probably has of will do in the future, us humans have a 6th sense for just knowing this type of thing. but on the other hand if she wants to cheat and lie to your face short of taking hey for a lie detector your going to be stuck an insecure mess till the inevitable happens,she comes clean n leaves you for the guy shes been cheating on you with. if i was sure my partner was cheating, even without rock solid proof ide outright leave them. either your secretly not wanting to be with her so your inventing story's for a guilt free way to end it or shes cheating......neither say stay together buy a house and have children and really that is what having a relationships about otherwise you can just get a fukbuddy or 5 :)

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  • heart_keeper

    Ok well this happened to me. This guy I liked was cheating on his gf when we started hanging out, then dumped her after some time. Then he got with me, and a year and a half later he pretty much did the same thing to me as he did to the other girl. He said he met someone "nice". Once a cheater always a cheater :(

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  • She needs to keep some stuff to herself

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  • Avant-Garde

    If she did it to others, she could do it to you too. If you don't trust her end the relationship and never look back.

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  • itsleah

    She did it to others...so why wouldn't see do it to you?

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  • well you were warned

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