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My girlfriend its a very sexual person, if she could have sex daily and a lot of times through the day she will do it, but Im not like that, I mean, I can go for 2 months or more without doing it.I could do other things to show her that I love her,but she says that im wrong. This brings us a lot of problems. Am I normal or im weird? This makes me feel sad
No matter how much she likes sex, you probably don't have to have penis-vaginal sex every time to satisfy her. You can do oral sex on each other, or do mutual masturbation together, or watch porn with each other, or do role play. You can have sexual intimacy in other ways which might you might be more able to perform, is what I'm saying.
Lots of people - most people - want a sexual dimension to their relationship which really doesn't have anything to do with their partner showing they love them. Regular sex is important to your girlfriend, and that is normal. Your position is normal too, although perhaps a bit less common. Sexual incompatibility is something a lot of people face in their relationships and not everyone can overcome that problem.
Different people have different sex drives. For your girlfriend to tell you that you're wrong seems kind of selfish especially if you're willing to please her in other ways. (I assume you mean sexually please her without using your penis.)
Its a matter of compatibility and the willingness of both to work it out. But for one to blame the other is not going to work out well for either.
You shouldn't be in a relationship if you have a very low sex drive. You two are just not compatible. You need to find yourself a nun.
Don't be so fucking rude. Your middle sentence is fine. The other two are not.
well first of all sex is for reproducing ppl thus during marriage. (ask jesus). But how in the world does this guy not enjoy sex. wtf. now there is something wrong with him. I dont care who you are
I hate sex too. I'm a girl though, I think it's less common in a guy. I've never heard a guy say it, but that may be because no one wants to admit it rather than you're the only one. It's not common though, no.
The only person in the wrong is her for accusing you of being wrong. You shouldn't have to do anything you don't want to. I'm guessing that you two aren't going to work out though, sorry. You'll find someone much better suited to you though.
*hug*
You do not have to have sex with someone as a way of proving your love. A person can be sexually attracted to someone and not love them, and so similarly the opposite is just as valid. Sex is not necessarily a sign of love.
I will not judge your relationship or attempt to tell you what you should do, however, when you try to talk about it, what does she do?