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I think its weird that as a boy I dont like getting a blowjob, Im ok about giving them but I dont like my girlfriend giving me oral sex, I think its denigrant or grovel for her, I just think its not ok for her to do that, but she likes it A LOT she even begs me at times so I let her do it, I feel really bad as I think this is not right
Wtf dude.. If she's BEGGING for it, she doesn't like it. She loves it and wants to do it all the time so go ahead and let her.
It makes sense why you would think that, it's almost like you don't want to damage you're girlfriends beauty by doing something like that. Honestly if you're not ok with it, then it's simply your choice. However, you should keep in mind that in no way does your girlfriend find it demeaning and she consents to it all the way. But again, it's not like because you're a guy you're supposed to enjoy these things. Perhaps whenever your gf suggests a blowjob you could just give her one? I mean I imagine she enjoys receiving oral, so like you end up pleasing her and you yourself are pleased.
Drill down. Ask yourself why is it wrong? Be painfully honest. Whatever answer you come up with ask again (about the new answer) why is THIS wrong. You might be surprised at what you find
You have too much cultural baggage. Encourage your girlfriend to talk dirty. Give her compliments every time she says "fuck", "cock", "pussy", and "suck". She'll feel more comfortable and happy with you. So sweet.
You don't like it not because it causes you any physical or emotional harm. You just don't want to degrade her. So if she enjoys it, isn't the problem sorta nullified?
Also, BJs are not merely degrading. She can be powerful and submissive at the same time.
I think its weird that as a boy I dont like getting a blowjob, Im ok about giving them.
Really??????????