Is it normal that i dont desire physical contact with m girlfriend?

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I am a girl and bisexual, i have been with many guys but this is my first female partner. We are cheesy and romantic (just how i like it) and comstantl do things like writing poems and songs, giving eachother gifts and so on, i love her, i really do. In all my past relationships i am known to get very physicaly serious (kissing, touching, etc) and i had desired it extremly, i dont refuse to do anything with her, but i just dont have the desire to

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  • FocoUS
    12 years ago

    I'm a lady and I've treated my lady friends like this. Spooning, showering them with compliments, holding hands, nothing uber serious though.

    Why? Because I'm straight. You might be to. You can admire someone without romance.

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  • AmandaS
    11 years ago

    I have been in a similar situation, I am straight as I know my self, I am physicaly attracted to man, I've had 16 boyfriends and enjyed every moment whith each one of them. I never thought about being whith a girl until last spring, time when I knew a girl wich was extremly wise in a twisted way, also beautiful in my opinion. We had a intesnse comunication, as you were saying by writting each other poems, and we get as far as our chats, multiple times a day where very deep, intense and cured. I didn't mention that she lives in Italy, is studing there, and after we meet in a party the first time she left, so we comunicated for about 5 months intensively, at the time I thought I loved her and I still do, but as a coward I decided to desappair because I didn't want anything physical, for the fear of not being good at pleasing her, she is a divine figure in my mind and heart, but just can't do it.

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  • stayzz0
    12 years ago

    Look for a guy that's cheesy and romantic. You sound more like a straight girl in need of a close gal pal than a girlfriend. If you really love her then she deserves more than this.

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  • beebum
    12 years ago

    You're probably an asexual bisexual. This is completely normal, and a lot of people are like this. However, putting words to it makes no difference. Just accept that you like what you like--there's no reason to force yourself into anything!

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    • IrishPotato
      11 years ago

      I support this comment.

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  • Oli
    12 years ago

    You can't be bi if you have no sexual attraction to her.

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  • freakymuch
    12 years ago

    To those who say im probably not bi, i get how knowing nothing but this paragraph about our relationship wud make that sound true, but i asure u, we really do love eachother beyond beleif. She isnt a very physical person so it doesnt bother her and i will never deny her if she tries somthing. As one of u said, eventualy she'll seduce me and my horniness will take over, i think that is pretty likely :)

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  • Appreciate
    12 years ago

    awww, what a cute couple
    just wait til she seduces you, then your horniness will take over :)

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  • freakymuch
    12 years ago

    Comnstntly-constantly

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  • emilydoll
    12 years ago

    Give it time!

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