Is it normal that i dont bother about sex ?

I think that you are definitely not the only woman who feels like this. In fact, many women, maybe most of them, are similar to you in this regard. There may be some exceptions but in general, just do not let yourself get confused by what you read online and in media about "women being horny these days to the same extend as men"...it is just a myth, new modern legend reflecting people´s fantasies, nothing more....

Many women are exactly the same as you - they do not feel sexual tension or desire for sex during long, long periods in their life. Just some people like dreaming and writing and speaking about legendary "horny women who crave sex all the time"...it might tell us something about male fantasies or about political corretness of liberal societies but nothing about real life experiences of people, I mean majority of people, of course to every rule there are some exceptions.

By the way, just the fact that you do not refuse sex when you are with a guy might make you more sexual than many other women. So you do not have to think that other women are much more sexual than you, craving sex all the time is something which is not typical of the majority of women in spite of all the social and cultural changes.

Just consider the statistics that show that more than 30 per cent of British or American women suffer from lack of sexual desire and many of them are unable to enjoy sex. Your feelings are definitely not below the average norm when it comes to women. Just my opinion.

You sound pretty normal to me from my experience. Sex is definitely hyped up in the media which make a lot of people think that its not normal to think about sex daily and have sex frequently. I'm a male and I never crave or even want sex.

I think you just have a very low libido. It's also possible that, as you said you're very shy and inexperienced, since you've gone so long without sex that you've just grown accustomed to a sexless life.

I am a Demisensual Asexual.. that means I do not enjoy sexual intercourse, ever, but I absolutely adore sensuality (being intimate with each others bodies, as long as no vaginal penetration is involved).. as long as I have a deep emotional connection with someone(which for me, happens extremely rarely) if I do not have that deep connection for someone, I do not want to touch them in any way (even to shake hands) .. that goes for my family, friends, everybody...

Anyway, I have friends who are Demi>sexual< that means they do not enjoy or want sex, unless they have a deep emotional connection with someone ie boyfriend/lover etc (as opposed to people who enjoy sex with anybody, and are just happy to be 'getting some' - nothing wrong with this ^_^)

Do you think you could identify as a Demisexual?

Yeah completly normal some people are not highly sexed. No right or wrong answers in how often a person needs to be having sex. xx