Is it normal that i don't want to text the guy i like?

I'm scared he is going to think I am obsessed with him because I've already texted him first the last couple of days. He's never texted me first before. But when we texts he says so much. So I know he likes talking to me.. Should I wait or jut text him?

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  • Captain_Kegstand

    Text him, I love it when a girl i'm into txts me first! Makes me feel good because she is thinking about me!

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  • GuessWho

    Many guys won't voluntarily start a text conversation, but will keep it going.

    As a girl, you should start the conversation, since he probably won't take the initiative.

    If he's annoyed with it, he'll ignore it or ask you to stop. If he's busy, he'll say cheers. If he doesn't respond, be patient - don't send him 600 texts.
    If a guy regularly starts the conversation, he probably just wants to bang you.

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  • Subfinmatic

    I(male) try not to start texts of any kind, "I'm lonely and have so much to talk about, please text me" sort of way. That's probably him lol.

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  • ygrowup

    You take the lead!

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  • thinkingaboutit

    Stop texting him.

    If he doesn't have the balls to text or call you himself...lol...you don't want him tapping that ass. There's no telling what else he isn't willing to do.

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    • A little harsh, but I can respect where you are coming from.

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  • joybird

    I don't think you should be 'too available' to text him every day. I'd give him a day off, just so he doesn't get too sure of you. Then he'll be wondering where you were, he'll also notice that you have a life too - so he better act quickly before you get snapped up by some other hot dude :o)

    It's always important that you seem to have your own interests too and aren't going to be too clingy.

    Good luck, I hope it works out for you both :o)

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  • BASEDOFWG

    I feel the same way when I text a girl. It always feels like you're annoying them or something when you continue to text them first.

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  • Justsomejerk

    The line is two texts in a row in a day. Ie: you text then text again without the first text being answered. Do not cross the line.

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  • ginz

    go ahead. guys don't get annoyed of a text from a girl even if he's not into her. of course unless ur being annoying as hell with hundreds of quesions very hour.

    just text him first. it's more likely he'll be glad u texted if not he won't mind anyway. bottomline, guy won't get annoyed of text from girl unless he dislikes her..

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