Is it normal that i don't want to suck boyfriend's dick?

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4.5-5 years at this point and although our sex life is overall good, he still gets upset over the fact that I've only sucked his dick once and have absolutely no desire to give blow jobs. He always gives me oral but I just don't feel like I should return the favor. Recently, we've been arguing over this and he's even threatened to leave over the lack of blow jobs. I say not giving blow jobs are normal but I do fear losing him to another girl that's willing to give them to him. What does everybody else think?

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  • Justsomejerk
    11 years ago

    That is so rude.

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    • flutterhigh
      11 years ago

      Rapists actually just want to teach people proper etiquette.

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  • Bbymama91
    6 years ago

    Honestly I don't particularly enjoy it but I do it to please him. I wish I enjoyed it more sometimes I wonder if I'm gay because I don't enjoy it.

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  • biprof
    8 years ago

    If you do not want him to be your boyfriend then go ahead do not give him a blow job..He will look for someone who will like perhaps another boy..

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  • mekatsuki
    11 years ago

    We, men, prefer getting blow job over sex. Anyway, don't do it if you don't want to.

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  • Ono
    11 years ago

    Well you don't have to if you don't want to, but it sounds like it's either quite important to him. Alternately he may be bringing up the issue because he knows it will lead to conflict which if he pushes enough will lead to you breaking up with him. Men are better at provoking the woman to break up with them rather than do the break up themselves, so he might just be using the issue as a wedge.

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  • abaitbi
    3 years ago

    I hope you left him. Although this post is almost 10 years ago, I hope you find my comment. Most of these comments are from cis men who love blowjobs. I'm a woman, and I want you to know that it's normal. Because I'm not alone. I hope you found someone who you feel sexually comfortable with.

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  • estherglo1
    4 years ago

    I myself find it a bit weird even tho I love him unconditionally, I am working on it, I want to please him just like he does I'm grateful that he is patient with me.

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  • BubbuGum
    5 years ago

    I would have left you at 6 months. It certainly wouldn't have lasted 5 years. Hell. No. Even if I loved you with all of my heart, I can learn to love someone else who is willing to work and care for me at least as much as I do them.

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  • Aleks85
    11 years ago

    No you're selfish, and you need to learn to get on your knees and please your man. I hate women like you. You also need to learn to enjoy pleasing your partner without being stimulated yourself. Selfish people are selfish. I woulda dumped you quick and a lot of other men too.

    Oral sex is pretty common and a woman should know sucking dick is part of her make up, just like a guy is to eat pussy
    if and when she desires it.

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  • GuessWho
    11 years ago

    You're entitled to that choice.
    If he feels that strongly about it, why didn't he break up with you long ago?

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    • BicuriousChick
      11 years ago

      that's a good question. I have no idea

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    So you want him to give you oral, but you don't want to return the favor? Seems a little self centered to me!

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    • BicuriousChick
      11 years ago

      Although I enjoy the oral sex, I never ask for it. I've actually told him that if the lack of blow jobs bothers him, then he should stop giving me oral but he continues to do it.

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      • Captain_Kegstand
        11 years ago

        That kind of changes the story a little. In that case, I dunno lolz

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  • AssBurgers
    11 years ago

    Spiteful. The fuck is wrong with you girl?

    The least you can do is get someone else to suck him off.

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    • BicuriousChick
      11 years ago

      I've suggested a BJ Buddy that could give him blow jobs but he refuses

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      • AssBurgers
        11 years ago

        He refused? Hmm...this is more complicated than I thought. Well, if you offered him that and he turned it down, then he can't really complain.

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