Is it normal that i don't want to see him?

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Hello out there I'm coming up on a problem soon and I'm not sure what to do about it, I broke it off with the guy I was living with. We were on and off again for five years and decided to try living together, about a month into it I found out he was flirting with other girls and was talking about breaking up with me to his friends. So I left first and took everything with me and haven't spoken to him since that day(about a week ago). Unfortunately he owes me $200 I'm not sure if it's worth having to see him and suffer through talking to him for the money. I've never been cheated on before and I just feel so betrayed. I don't know if it's worth it to have to go through all the hassle of txting him and then going to see him just for the money.
p.s. Also I'm trying to go from brown hair to blonde so my hair is at that middle red stage and I don't want him to see me with fire hair...it's a little embarrassing for me

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  • Look@MeNow
    12 years ago

    Sounds to me like you have already made up your mind and just not paying attention to what you have decided. Sounds like you are not intersted in the hassle of attempting to collect the debt he owes you and that you still are hurt by his actions. The fact that you dyed your hair and you don't want him to see you says you still have feelings for him, otherwise you just wouldn't give a damn how you looked. Time heals all wounds even the ones we keep throwing salt on. Eventually the hurt and pain subsides and we are able to better handle certain situations. Perhaps if you really need or want the money you could designate a neutral ground. Send him and email or a text asking for it. Give him an address (doesn't have to be yours, just someone you trust) and ask him to purchase a money order or cashiers check and have him mail it to you. Best of wishes.

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  • justaname
    12 years ago

    Well first off you need to make your mind up if you want the cash that badly. Seeing him does not have to be as much of a pain as you may think, at the end of the day you get to walk away from him when ever you want.

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