Is it normal that i don't want to have sex with anybody? ever?

I think it is awesome that your asexual. I mean you don't have to think about finding someone and just have friends that you know care about you. This is cool too because you can focus on your life and do what you want to do rather than thinking that you need to find someone to complete your life. Do what you feel like you need to do rather than feel what you think society wants you to do.

fyi, "This asexual crap" is not a trend, it has always existed. It exists in wild animals as well, it's not just some human phenomenon. Trust me, I wish I desired sex so that I could be normal. Don't you think I would want to have avoided being an outcast? Do you make the same comments towards homosexuals? Do you say "this homosexual crap is starting to become a trend, and I cant fathom how a man wouldn't want to have sex with a woman. It's in our DNA and genes, it's why we are here." ?

Also: "women are cold hearted anyway."
Yeah? Well, probably just to you. I don't know why though; you seem like an absolutely wonderful person.

You might be ace (asexual). I'm a boy, and while I don't have any desire to have sex with anyone, ever, I still do have some sexual thoughts, so idk if I count as asexual. Probably find someone who knows more about it. Good luck!

You could be asexual. However, never feel like you have to do what society expects of you. I think you're normal because I'm sure a lot of people give in to society's expectations.

I'd hit it

I don't have any knowledge on this, but there are asexual people so I don't see why you wouldn't be normal. And the connection with men thing, probably just means you're destined to fall in love with a man, rather than a woman :)

Sex is awesome, i could not imagine not wanting to have it. But whatever floats you boat

attractive men are different from men that "turn you on". just sayin. You prolly havn't come across one of these bad boys yet. They are shrinking in numbers as the years move on.

Yes, it is totally normal and nothing to do with genes or hormones. It is not even any disease that can be cured, because it is totally normal.

Asexuals need to increase more awareness to make it feel normal to the masses

you are probably asexual. so am i. it's perfectly normal. sex is not the be all and end all. quite frankly, the only thing i could see good coming from it is my son. i always found sex smelly, sweaty and messy. i don't like feeling less than just out of the shower clean and i don't like people touching me.

You probably have Low sex hormone levels and would need to see an endicrinologist

Maybe you haven't found THAT spot yet where you feel most comfortable. also, it might be the man you are/have been seeing as some of them can have sex the wrong way. The best thing to do is investigate yourself a bit more and if the time comes, tell your partner where and how to do it.

Dr.J

I have to sort of agree with the OP, I dont really enjoy sex all that much either and tend to look at over sexed people as having something wrong with them. I wouldnt equate them completely to the way a heroin addict needs to get a fix, but I think there is still some similarities in needing sex like that. Not to mention being grossed out when I hear stories of people age 50 and up having sex. Just kinda nasty to visualize. People that age should only be getting naked for showering. Society seems to want to impress upon people the need to be open about sex and want to have sex and all that, I agree that sex is a normal bodily function, perhaps even need, but I havent had sex in over a year myself and I havent missed it at all. Its certainly not something I need like food or water, which misguided people would tell you. I am also probably what could be called attractive to women, in shape as I work out regularly and otherwise normally "equipped", so its nothing like "sour grapes" or anything like that.

just live your life, why you even "care" for something you don't care about?

Ejs you have issues and are not normal. It's human nature to want sex. You sound like you suffer from mental instability not asexuality.

Listen, asexual isn't normal. It always stems from some sort of trauma or abuse. Get help and move on with your lives and I guarantee you will be happy. (not just for sex but your own peace of mind)

My guess is you were raped or sexually abused. You need to get help because sex is enjoyable and the closest you can ever be to someone. It's time to move on. Both of my sisters were abused it takes time.

Retards