Is it normal that i don't want to have sex until marriage?

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I am somewhat religious but that's besides the point. I just feel like having sex before marriage is wronge and immoral. I also just feel like you are doing marriage wronge when you have sex before because you won't feel very different when your married. Also, it's really annoying that people always tell me oh you will never last. I want to and I want my partner to be a virgin too. I'm afraid I won't find that though. I also am extremely cautious of STDs and the best way to avoid them is no sex until marriage and my partner has no sex until marriage. I just feel like that's how you do marriage right.

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Based on 13 votes (6 yes)
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  • dicka912
    6 years ago

    Waiting to have sex until you are married might not be normal but it is your decision. Hold true to your convictions.

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  • nikkiclaire
    6 years ago

    To me it doesnt seem normal because I don't ever remember being a virgin.

    As others have said what if you are sexually incompatible. Then what do you do?

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  • SmokeEverything
    6 years ago

    It's sad that you feel this way, because you're missing out on a big part of life. You should start having sex as young as possible so as to gain the most experience and figure out what it is you actually enjoy about it. VD/STDs and pregnancy can be prevented by pulling out, makes no difference if you're married or not there.

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    • Pseodonihm
      6 years ago

      By pulling out? WRONG. So wrong.

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      • SmokeEverything
        6 years ago

        You clearly have not educated yourself about sex through experience

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        • Pseodonihm
          6 years ago

          You clearly think you know everything. But you obviously know very little. There are some STD that are transmitted by contact alone. Some are spread though fluid exchange. Like vaginal fluid and pre-ejaculate. Wear a condom and your semi safe. Except for crabs. Take a health class. If you like sex learn about it. Don't assume you know something.

          And yes before you comment on how "safe" pulling out is as it applies to pregnancy. I know there are studies out there that say it's an option, but to the OP, if your a girl never trust a guy to pull out. Never! Even the classiest of guys is capable of making a mistake at that moment. And that one mistake could haunt you for the rest of your lives.

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          • SmokeEverything
            6 years ago

            It has nothing to do with how classy you are, its how good you are at pulling out. Yes, some STDs can be transferred through simple contact like herpes from toilet seats and holding hands, but most people are going to get that anyway so it's nt really worth worrying about or trying to prevent.

            I do not claim to know everything, but health class is a poor place to learn about sex. Prude teachers try to scare kids away from having sex because they're jealous.

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            • Pseodonihm
              6 years ago

              I can't believe I'm saying this, but I hope your just a troll. Why, because your just posted that it's not worth worrying or trying to prevent getting herpes. Your last post proves how little you know. I'm just going to guess your a teenager. When I was a teenager I was lucky. Because I thought then, like you are thinking right now, and I came through with only a few scratches. If you like something learn about it. Just because you can get your dick wet doesn't mean there isn't more to know. Use the internet and look up things other than porn.

              Take your Name on this site. Have you ever tried vaporizing? It's much better, I assure you.

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  • analsexonly
    6 years ago

    Sex should be a prominent part of dating. Dating is about finding compatibility in all areas before making a longer term commitment to select a life partner, and sex is a big part of life. People have a wide variety of sexual preferences and needs, and they are not all compatible, so it is important to discover sexual compatibility before committing to marriage, along with all other forms of compatibility.

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    • SmokeEverything
      6 years ago

      Thank you! How many idiots wait for sex until marriage to find out one is a freak and the other one is a prude. 100% chance of cheating.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      But it's just wrong! I want to be deticated to my partner. I want to like them for who they are.

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      • analsexonly
        6 years ago

        A person's sexuality and sexual preferences is part of who they are, and an important part. It can't be ignored until after you've made a life-long commitment and then hope you'll magically be compatible in that area you have no knowledge of once you marry.

        It has nothing to do with dedication. Past experiences don't affect your dedication to a person in the future.

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