Is it normal that i don't want to have a family someday?

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i started not to trust boys after knowing that my ex bf had baby with his ex while we're still together and i started not to trust anyone cause of my mom she doesn't appreciate me, she call me names and she always say that its better if she's alone. she even compares me to other girls. she also told me to move out of the house and because of that i really want to move out i can't stand her. i can feel that out neighbors feel that i am really lazy like she always say. i know i am but i still do chores
i really hate them i just can't trust anymore. and now i don't see myself having family i'm seeing myself living with dogs, cats cause i love animals and they are really makes me so happy. is it normal?

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Based on 53 votes (39 yes)
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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    It's certainly normal to feel this way, especially after what you have gone through.

    What you need to remember is that there are 7 billion other people on this planet, 300 million in the US. There are many good people and many opportunities to have a successful relationship and good connections in your life. If you want this, you have to realize that you need to cut these bad people out of your life and start filling your life with better ones and not give up hope on yourself and others. There are plenty of good people in the world, you just need to put effort into finding them.

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  • [email protected]
    11 years ago

    Fuck having a family,neither do I want one.Think of all the expense and bullshit they go through.You're way better off alone if you can manage it.

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  • forever_anon
    11 years ago

    It's not that common, but more people are making that choice. It's definitely understandable given your circumstances. I, too, have decided not to have children, partly due to family history and also for other reasons. Since having a family is the norm, you may face some peer pressure for your decision, but if you're certain that this is what you want, then stick to your guns. I hope that you can find a solution to your living situation.

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  • FriendlyAnswers
    11 years ago

    I am really sad for you I hope I help you find a solution

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Only if you think it is.

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