Is it normal that i don't want to fantasize about...

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Is it normal that I absolutely don't want to fantasize (i even freak if it's an accident!) about kissing my boyfriend? Some say it's weird to feel weird about it...

I always feel bad when i do (accident or otherwise) and like somehow he can read my mind and will hate me...

We're not "goody-goodies" but we're really... Idk the word. :P Some may call us that. Also we're best friends... Not officially together, but we both know we're in love with each other

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  • kr24
    11 years ago

    You have to be 13 years or older to use the Internet. Now get off the PC.

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  • Justsomejerk
    11 years ago

    Why would your bf not want you to think about kissing him?

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    "IIN that I absolutely don't want to fantasize (i even freak if it's an accident!) about kissing my boyfriend? Some say it's weird to feel weird about it..."

    It's pretty immature/weird.

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  • DudeUrFuglyXox
    11 years ago

    thats kinda weird, if hes ur bf ur supposed to want to kiss him

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  • yesnomaybeso
    11 years ago

    I didn't really understand it. What's wrong with kissing him?

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  • ProseAthlete
    11 years ago

    I can't tell from your post whether you enjoy fantasizing about kissing him and don't want to enjoy it, or if you don't enjoy fantasizing about kissing him.

    If it's the first case, stop beating yourself up for thinking that it would be nice to kiss someone you're admittedly in love with! You're supposed to fantasize about kissing someone you love. It isn't normal to chastise yourself for having normal impulses. Thinking is not the same as doing.

    If it's the second and you get grossed out from thinking about kissing him, then that's not quite normal, either. When the thought of kissing someone makes you go "Ew," it's time to end the relationship.

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    • dom180
      11 years ago

      I agree, and it's not strictly related but "ProseAthlete" is a brilliant name :)

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