Is it normal that i don't want to date physically disabled people?

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I'm okay with being friends tho....

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  • Koda
    9 years ago

    It'd have been helpful if you'd bothered to include your reasoning. You've left us nothing to comment upon. Methinks 'tis a troll.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    Am I missing something here? Is there a law that says you must date disabled people?
    If you don't want to do something, that's your right.

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    • Unimportant
      9 years ago

      Yes, it's the "Fuck The Disabled Act" of 2014.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    9 years ago

    You didn't include your reasons. Is it because you want someone who is strong enough to protect you? Is it because you feel it would be too stressful? Are you embarrassed to be seen with him or her? Without some sort of reason, you're not going to get much help here(the questions I did ask are reasons I've heard someone give when this was asked on Meez.)

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Once I tried to inform myself about these type of people, like how do they manage to live their daily lives, how do they enjoy lives with their partners, so I asked on Yahoo Answers. I also included that I perhaps couldn't date these people because I just wouldn't handle it.
      I got helpful information from a nice woman who herself was diabled, and then there was another who told me that she's fine and stuff, and she gets a lot of sex wich I probably won't because I'm ill, and asked me what would I do if my partner would have an accident which made him disabled, "would you just leave him?" She was really nasty with me and that made me think it was wrong that I didn't want to date disabled people and felt guilty for years. :/

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      • Cuntsiclestick
        9 years ago

        Don't let the "bleeding hearts" people get to you. If it's not something you're able to deal with, then that's fine. No need to feel guilty. :)

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          9 years ago

          So... you think it's okay not to date disable people? I mean, sure, I should date who I like and not just date cuz I'm sorry, but I feel I'm discriminatory like that. And that thing she said... like my bf can get disabled anytime, makes me paranoid! Like of course I wouldn't stop dating the love of my life just because he has some problems, but I'm just saying that normally I wouldn't get into a relationship like that because it would be hard for both of us, especially that I can be really empathic when someone is suffering (unfortunately, this ended one of my really good friendships. I couldnt handle hearing my friend whine because I was sorry for him so I blocked him to finally be free of pain). I still don't know what would I do if something happened to anyone who I love. :/ Gosh, now I'm just too paranoid to fall in love.....

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          • Riddler
            9 years ago

            Well its a dating preference and if your not into it your not into it. I mean your not hating them as people. I guess it would be the same as saying "Well im a girl who only dates boys". I mean its nothing against lesbians but your not into girls. So I could see where one might complain but I dont think its anything to really judge you for.

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          • Cuntsiclestick
            9 years ago

            Yep it's okay to not date disabled people. I'm not really sure how to help with the apathy though since I'm sort of apathetic towards things as well.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      I want someone more independent y'know. It's not that I judge them or anything, but it would be very stressful for me and I don't think I would be the right person for them either because I just simply wouldn't bother to give them the attention they perhaps would need, I'm an apathic person and the relationship would be a mess.
      I found myself daydreaming about being asked out by someone disabled in the future and I thought if I would say no people will think I have no heart or that I'm a sex maniac or "want the D" and I really felt guilty about it, because I just don't feel strong enough for a relationship like this and people would misunderstand. That's why I wanted to ask your opinion, guise... I was shy to give more details because I thought it would sound mean or awkward. :I

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  • ChocolatePrincess
    9 years ago

    I don"t want retard babies :(

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    • xCol
      9 years ago

      :(

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  • howaminotmyself
    9 years ago

    I'd rather they be physicaly disabled than mentally disabled.

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    • kenxglen
      9 years ago

      I agree

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