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First I feel it'd distract me from my goals, and maybe give me undeserved confidence.
Also I find fat bodies absolutely disgusting; texture, look, everything about them.
Is this normal?
That's perfectly normal and healthy feeling. You can get rid of this feeling by LOSING WEIGHT and GAIN CONFIDENCE.
Or remain a DISGUSTING OBESE FAT ASS but don't expect any sympathy from me
Absolutely correct! I´m not even chubby, currently at a normal BMI, but Ive gained weight and being with someone that loves your body doesnt motivate you to be the best you you can be :P Now I only have 2-3 months left until I look as good as I did before :D Keep fighting!
You're missing out. Love is fun regardless of your size. My husband is 330 lbs. and we have a lot of fun and great sex. I would have been heart broken if he had refused to date me.
With me I can like fat girls if they have nice skin, hair teeth etc and rolls of fat are not as bad as dense and huge bellies
There is a segment of the male population known as chubby chasers. You don't have to be alone.
Well, I'd say I'd choose to lose weight rather than settle for someone whom I disagree with on such a massive subject.
Well if I find one thing attractive. I'd want to be with someone else that shares my aesthetic .
So if I find thinner people attractive, I'd want to be with someone
A. Who is thin
B. Is attracted to thin people
(So thered be more in common, plus I've been with chubby chasers before, they tend to discourage weight loss.)
Well, its not that I don't love myself.
Its that both people need to be comfortable with it, physically I wouldn't be.
I am losing weight, but until I reach my goal, I'm waiting.
Because I love myself enough to want to be the best I can be, before I get with anyone.
Since no one probably tosses a look your way, you likely aren't and won't get any action anyway.
Sounds more like you have created a rationalization for being alienated due to your obesity.