Is it normal that i don't want to be around the girl who rejected me?

It's normal to feel that way. Its like having to sit next to a person who just pissed on you. I suggest you heavily decrease the amount of time you hang around her.

But if you are going to do this be honest. Tell her that you feel discomfortable when around her and you need space to heal. No one wants to keep staring at their own failures.

If she tries to tell you that hanging with her more will help, shes lying and only thinking about herself. Be careful when you try to peel yourself away, she may try and flirt with you to make you stick around. Don't fall for it.

Awww muffin.

So all your friends suck and ones a manipulative bitch who rejected you, but bangs losers.

Someone thinks too highly of themselves.

What's funny is a girl rejected me now anyone that dises her gets le fist in dare face

@Loveitaway
She told me it was that she is not physically attracted to me. She says it's not that I'm ugly but she isn't attracted to me. I believe her. I'm a hairy guy with pitch black hair, I have to shave daily almost since high school(When I shave I get stubble later in the day). Plus My face has scars that they make me look imposing and kinda scary when you first meet me. When I grow a beard I look ten years older easily. Now then, the loser's she tends to be into are hairless blonde drug addicts who got more balls than brains if you catch my drift. My problem is that I am too masculine. At least physically, people tell me I walk like a girl. The one's that know my peaceful nature anyway. Yeah, and before you start weeping for me, I am hot. I am not ugly, I'm manly, but that makes no diff.

@Ramit10 I really hope that she doesn't decide at this late date that she wants to be with me because I honestly want to be single. And I don't want to take advantage of her feeling alone or unloved. We all feel that way, and I don't want her to say anything she'll regret. Besides that relationship would have no drive, and the doubt would be there on both sides.

@jcity152 I couldn't agree more. I made my intention clear to her immediately, most would say too soon. But I fell for her immediately. Alot of guys do. She is nice. She has alot of male friends, but she tells me noone is like me. Yeah, I want to be free from her. (one thing I noticed is that she doesn't trust guys, I don't trust guys either)

Thanks for the help everyone, I know what I have to do, but I don't like it, normal or not.

She sounds like a caring person who obviously feels really bad for rejecting you! Maybe you tell her that you really do forgive her!!(If you do that is)Maybe then you can start building your friendship up into something more. Dont ever get jealous, she'll get annoyed that your getting protective wen yur not even together! Big no-no. Why did she say no?

As much as it seems like a bad idea I would just decrease time with her for a bit. I was in the same position she was my friend and i had a major crush on her but she said no because she was likeing a different guy. So I kept my distance but still texted her and hung out sometimes of coarse I knew this guy only wanted sex and it was a matter of time before they broke up. A month later guess who was single and needed a shoulder to cry on when I heard I was at her house in 2 min and i talked with her and told her how much i cared for her and that i hate seeing her like this then i got a kiss but i held back and that was it i contuined to text her and hang with her more often and would watch movies together(scaryones are the best ) then a month later we started to date. I would remian friends cause you never know when she might relize that you are the only guy out there that treats her good.

Yeah, that's normal. I wouldn't wanna be around someone who rejected me either. In fact, I was avoiding someone for quite a while who rejected me. Besides it's really not helping you out at all. If anything, it's just making your feeling's for her grow. And as for her playing with your heart like that, it isn't right at all. You should take sometime away from her so that you can heal.

Tell her how you truely feel around her

you probly wrong about everything, but i would do the same. Never see her again.

If you don't have feelings for her anymore than I wouldn't worry. I actually have an ex I sometimes get concerned he still wants to be romantic and it has been over a year. I like him a lot as a friend and care deeply about him but don't want to lead him on. Therefore, I am currently taking some space from him and hopefully things will just pass. I guess what I mean is if she is hanging out with you and she feels the same way I feel, spending time with you she thinks you are now not interested. If she is a bitch and leading you on constantly, I would consider new friends.

The best type of friend for a girl is a guy they know that they've made clear that he'll never be fucking them...ever u are in that roll sir and I suggest u grab ur pair of balls and exit stage left cuz there's no reason to have that close of a friendship after she rejected you