Is it normal that i don't want my male best friend to date anyone?

Okay so before anyone says the obvious "maybe you like him," I'm going to clear something up. I'm a lesbian. Not attracted to males. I've been best friends with my male friend for many many years, all throughout high school and I'm in 3 years of college now.

When he dates someone, I feel kind of jealous. Is this normal?

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65% Normal
Based on 66 votes (43 yes)
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  • Jealousy doesn't have to be romantic. You're jealous of the time she gets that you don't. This is no different than a mom being jealous of her sons girlfriend. It doesn't mean she wants to sleep with her son.

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  • Short4Words

    Because he's giving someone else attention besides yourself?

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  • icanteven

    i get what you mean, because im the same with my bestfriend, i think ts because we think they might want to be with their partner more than us?
    not sure just a guess because im in the same place:/
    welcomed to message me anytime:)

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  • 53739

    You've already friendzoned him, and you're not going to allow him any happiness in his life?

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  • AbnormallyAwesome

    What billygoatsgruff said.
    Also if you're single you could be jealous of the fact that he's dating someome and you're not.
    Believe me, I'm happy for all my friends who have someone, but it also makes it harder to talk to them. They have less time on their hands and you don't have the same priorities anymore. They live in relationship world now.

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  • dindu_nuffin

    sounds like you like him

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