Is it normal that i don't want kids for this particular reason?

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Well for one thing, I don't want kids anyway. But there's another reason I don't want to have kids, and that's so I can get back at my parents.
Both of them treat me like shit, so badly, and I'm not even going to go into it. They made my life a living hell. But anyways they always talk about what they're going to do with their grandkids and how they can't wait to have grandkids.
So yea. I'm going to purposely not have kids for revenge towards my parents for making my life a living hell. They will be so devastated about not having grandkids, and they will feel like part of their plans for their life were ruined. I think that's what they deserve for what they did to me.
Is it normal I feel this way?

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Based on 86 votes (50 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Or if you really want to get back at them, you can have kids and never let them meet your parents. Just my 2cents.

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  • Avant-Garde
    12 years ago

    Yes, it's normal.

    My family still can't seem to accept that I'll never have kids. They go on about how the "line" will end, which makes me happy. I would never want someone to have to be related to them!

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  • tubbs_rules
    7 years ago

    Its normal.I'm not having kids, and my parents are fine with that.

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  • SecretSlut
    10 years ago

    Seems like they wern't good parents at all =/ so yeah, normal to feel this way about them. but don't let their parenting dictate your life, you should be able to have children if you want to. Just never let them visit Grandma and Granpa.

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  • ooooolaalal
    12 years ago

    do what ever is best for you.

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  • SofieFatale
    12 years ago

    Whatever you do is fine and your decision, but I hope you know that if you don't, they're most likely going to resent you for it and treat you like shit even more. They'll be horrible. Jtlyk.

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  • kellstar79
    12 years ago

    I can't really vote as I don't know the circumstances of what they did to you to cause you so much hurt and anger. If they were physically and mentally violent then I say it's probably a little normal and if it was just normal parents trying to do the right thing then I'd say no. If you didn't want kids anyway then thats that's normal, just gives you another reason why motto have them. If you did want kids and choose not to have them for that reason then I think you would be depriving yourself more than your parents. It's also hard because I don't know if your male or female, if your male then accidents happen and you may not have a choice.

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  • porsublue
    12 years ago

    Living hell........ Well u should look up the definition. Im pretty sure it wasn't like hell.

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  • Funone1
    12 years ago

    http://parentfreebychoice.blogspot.com/
    There are better ways to get revenge.

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