Is it normal that i don't want it to last forever?

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Okay, so I'm currently dating my best friends(lets call her K) friend, D. I'm totally in love with him and everything. But I don't want to spend the rest of my life with him. I want to be adventurous after college and I want to see the whole world. And I truly don't want to marry my high school sweet heart. K told me that if that's the way I felt I shouldn't date D at all, and that I would break his heart and that I'd be a terrible person, all of it. Am I wrong for wanting to be single after high school and during college? I just want to find myself! Does anyone our there understand MY perspective? Please, just someone tell me whether I'm making the right move or not.
Thanks.

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  • VioletTrees
    11 years ago

    It's normal not to want to be tied down when you're young. Getting into a relationship isn't a promise to be in that same relationship for the rest of your life. Tell K to step off.

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  • ubiquitous_joe
    11 years ago

    It's normal to want to see the world and not get married to your high school sweetheart. But to me this isn't about K it's about D. If you know he's imagining eternity and you're in it for cuddles, then you aren't being honest.

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  • Ijustknowimweird
    11 years ago

    Its normal, but always keep in mind things change with love and might be worth it :)

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  • TomboyC
    11 years ago

    I know exactly how you feel, my boyfriend started talking to me about a house for us when we're older and it freaked me out a little bit D:

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  • neverletmego
    11 years ago

    I understand where you're coming from. I want the same thing. I think it's normal, if not, then we're both a little messed up. :)

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  • Mason554
    11 years ago

    And I sound old

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  • Mason554
    11 years ago

    Explore the world it'll be better I rushed in before finishing collage I wanted to do more

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  • Mason554
    11 years ago

    Ah high school I married someone from first grade but in fairness I knocked her up

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