Is it normal that i don't want a serious relationship/get married?

Honestly, I really don't see myself being tied down to just one woman. I like variety. One week I'd like to sleep with a white women, then maybe another week bang a cute sexy Asian. But as far as dating them or having a serious committed relationship with them, I just can't do it. My reasons for not wanting a relationship or getting married is because they just don't last forever even if I do meet "the right one." I've seen it happen with other people, they meet each other, they go through this "honeymoon phase," then later on they start arguing, then they breakup and makeup and breakup again, it all turns out to be like something out of a soap opera until it finally ends for good. I really don't want any of that kind of drama in my life. Plus what's the point of being in a relationship/married when you're gonna break up sooner or later anyway? One of my friends even asked me if I ever do wanna settle down and I told her that yes I would like to settle down someday with a wife and kids, but with the way people treat each other these days and with all the lying and cheating going on, it's not worth all that stress and drama. I'd rather go around having flings and one night stands with different women than to go through stress and drama that comes in a relationship or a marriage. And there's nothing anyone can say that will make me change my mind about it.

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Based on 42 votes (26 yes)
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  • I'm exactly like you but I'm a girl so people think I'm crazy. I can't stand the idea of being held down to a guy, the same person every day gets boring. I don't understand how you can love the same person till death. And I don't want kids, I don't hate them I just don't see the point.

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  • hotass

    I am an older man and I have never been fucked, but I want that to happen soon. Can you, or anyone help me? I want a real male person to answer me by e-mail. My e-mail address is [email protected]

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  • SkullsNBones

    I completely agree, people constantly ask me why I'm not interested in dating and don't believe me when I say that it's just too much hassle and drama.

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    • vagman30

      Thank you! It is too much hassle and drama. Not to mention all these mind games involved like if you get a girl's phone number, then you have to wait 2 or 3 days to call her back, or that you should be persistent with her for a date so she can see how interested she is in you. Who cares about all that? Asking her for a date once is interest enough. Asking for her phone number is even more interest enough. How much interest do I have to show her that I wanna go out on a date with her? I don't have time for all that nonsense.

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  • hotass

    what's the matter with this thing? When will a real man going to answer me?

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  • midnightsears

    I have been with the same guy sir 4 and a hafe years and we started dating in 6th grade and we have named all are kids and know how old we are going to be when we have them we have even picked are kids so we can have a good life so for me this is odd but I know lots of people live that life so its normal but not normal at the same time but it seems that its normal for u!

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Crushed.

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  • Caps90

    I think it's disgusting. Your willing to have your way with all these girls and then leave them. I hope you knock a girl up....

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    • vagman30

      No what's really disgusting is that theses days, when a couple who are in a relationship or are married begin to have some disagreements, instead of trying to fix things, they just simply give up and leave. Furthermore people are so high maintenance. If you do just one little thing to make them unhappy, then suddenly they leave for someone else. It's like you can't afford to make a tiny mistake in relationships or marriages otherwise the other person will be unhappy and leave you.

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      • Caps90

        I agree with you

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