Is it normal that i don't wanna let go?

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So, there's this girl that I've been madly in love with for 4 years now. We were friends in junior high, but for some reason she got annoyed of me and wouldn't tell me why...

Thinking back on it, I think she liked me back. I went off on her 3 times because of some emotional issues that Occured because of my sleep disorder and she forgave me all 3 times. I used to call her at the worst times by accident and she insisted that she wanted to talk to me. I used to tell her how much I liked her and how much I thought about her and I will admit some of it was creepy but she thought all of it was sweet. I was a really shy person, so I only talked to her on MySpace and on the phone /: BUT the couple of times we did talk in person she was nervous and was kinda having problems talking to me too. So I can see why she found me annoying cause it would be very annoying to have someone constantly tell you that they are pretty much in love with you and then not ask you out.

Now, 2 years ago I started to fall for this other girl cause I ended up moving to Wyoming from Arizona and this girl pretty much used me as someone to flirt with then push away until she got over her boyfriend that just broke up with her after 3 years. I, at the time, was in denial and even though Shanna said she was a complete bitch for leading me on like she did then saying yes to another guy she just met but I told her that she wouldn't do that cause she was too nice to me to do that. We were taking on Facebook cause she was getting her phone fixed and all she replied was "ok I'm sorry" and not 10 seconds later she had blocked me. So I'm pretty sure that I hurt her. But to this day I can't stop thinking about her and cry when're I think about all the times I tell myself I have no chance with her and that I'll never be with her. So should I:

Try to find her and tell her how I feel 15
Go after her and ask her out so I feel better 3
Dont do anything, don't make things worse 5
Try to forget about her, but possibly live with this regret forever 8
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  • dinz
    11 years ago

    Now that question comes to mind "What if _______?"

    You obviously won't get over your dilemma until you seek final closure.

    My suggestion? Well try to get in contact her and pop the big question. There is a chance she could say no but hey at least it's closure and you can at move on with life less one brick off your back.

    I wish you luck OP.

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  • Corleone
    11 years ago

    You didn't have a relationship with either of these girls, so you don't owe anyone an apology. stop fretting over a minor incident that happened two years ago, get a grip on yourself! If you want to talk to your friend that's fine, but don't start off with a love confession. That'd be just weird.

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  • VioletTrees
    11 years ago

    If you want, you can try to contact the first girl. If she says no, though, you have to move on. No trying to persuade her, no obsessing, no pining. That wouldn't be good for anybody.

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  • saddeningalien
    11 years ago

    She's not worth your time.
    There are seven billion people in the world, pick any one of them instead.

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