Is it normal that i don't visualize myself with my boyfriend of 5 yrs?

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I started dating my boyfriend, Derrick, when I was 14. He was 3 years older and just my ultimate dream guy. Now fast forward 5 years and we live together and we both go to college.

So when I was younger I used to dream about us getting married and our life together. I don't really see us getting married and if I picture it, I know we'll get a divorce. He still pictures it though. I joke about my true feelings to him to see if he agrees but he gets really upset if I even joke about it. I'm worried I've changed. I'm not 14 anymore, things have changed. I still love him but am I in love with him? No. I see myself dating a 35 year old even though I'm 19. I've thought about breaking it off but I know I'll be so sad without him at the same time. He's my best friend. I just have no sexual desire for him but we still have sex regularly.

Is this normal? If your in a relationship and your girlfriend was thinking this way would you want her to leave?

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    In long term relationship people tend to fall in and out of love.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Yes it's not very fair on either of you if you love him but not in love with him break it off now before you totally destroy him.

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