Is it normal that i don't understand sexting/sex chat/cybersex/etc?

They actually had a report of this adult female cheating on her husband cybering online with other adult men. She later ran off with the guy she met in real life and went to live with him and left her husband. I forget what show that was though.

They are imagining in their heads and sometimes it turns them on. You just have no imagination. Same reason people read dirty fiction. As well as that people who role-play are often very creative so I think its very thrilling since its a game they can get into.

People doing this are also generally people with 0 friends and not really getting any. So this is a type of safe alternative. You can not get an STD through a computer screen can you? Also there is adults doing this type of stuff too not just children. its sad how very uncreative you are.

As well as that if you are a good roleplayer you are a little more graphic than that. Some people write better than others and generally those are people that are more fun to play with.

There is also the para/semi para people that means you must do 3-5 line responses and only moderate to advanced ones can play. Its sort of like acting on the computer. They also have many kinds of rolaplays. Not all of them are really sexual. Some are just people bored and want to pretend to be cartoon characters. Example: can have Dib fighting Zim to see if Zim can take over the earth.

They as well have roleplaying in the bedroom and its exactly like what they do in sexting/cybering but translated to real life. Its like writing a script. You set characters, rules, and setting and world you must establish together. Than you bring it to life.

role players tend to be into anime, writing, drawing, dressing up, cosplay and those type of things. Adults doing it are generally just looking for sexual release.

i don't have problem with that
that make you feel happy and enjoy it

I agree it can be fun but it's never going to be fun like the real thing

It's all in the mind. Close your eyes and enjoy the ride hehe.

I had phone sex with a friend of mine once, several years ago. I knew what he looked like because he was my best friend and we'd known each other since childhood, but he lived 800Km away at the time. The way it happened was unplanned and pretty organic. After a long visit on the phone, we started talking about our sexual preferences in detail and both of us became very turned on by it. That led to masturbating while we talked about it. It felt natural. We'd never even so much as kissed before though, so it was a unique experience for us.

I umm... don't think it's done like that. There are ways and means, and it's generally not so matter of fact as you hinted at. To me, the content of it is no different than talking dirty in person (with the exception there that you're probably going to end up doing the things you talk about).

When you're pretending by yourself at home, you can't surprise yourself.

As a bit of fun I think it's okay, like who wouldn't like randomly recieving a nude pic and a bit of dirty talk from someone they like? :)